How accurate is this list?

[wet_suit_one]

http://www.flirtskool.com/how-to-att...-mistakes.html

I imagine that items 1-9 are pertinent.

Do tell, for my curiousity is piqued...

Cheers!

[sera300]

I'd say none are very accurate.

Why? Most of us just want a decent man, not overly mushy, just sweet and kind. As far as asking for permission? No. Relationships are give and take; however, unless married and one spouse decides they wish to go away [and you have not seen a vacation in centuries] then it's a mutual choice. No one asks permission, just say I am going to do X on Sat., we did not have plans? But again that's within a marriage.

Some of us are drawn to nice guys, not the ones at your feel like a puppy dog, but honestly nice and decent men.

[Gorgeous Mistake]

Number 2 is a pile of garbage.

[lustforlove]

I think it's all fairly rubbish, My boyfriends a 'nice guy' and i feel powerful attraction towards him ect. load of rubbish.

[wet_suit_one]

So what you are saying Gorgeous is that you can be convinced to be attracted to a man, or if you're a man, you've succeeding in causing a woman to be attracted to you who initially was not? Interesting.... Those are two rather different things in my view and how one acheives the latter is of some interest to me. Do tell...

[Ephemera]

I think number 2 is correct.

[Zorbgoddess]

That list is a bunch of crap. It may seem like some are on target in the general sense, but what works for some is not what works for others. It assumes all women are into "a certain type of man" and that is completely not true. Everyone's preferences are different from everyone else's. Plenty of girls really do like "nice" guys, and while you really can't "make" the other person like you, sometimes love can develop over time and lead to an incredibly great relationship. So yeah... don't read too much into it.

[constantlylearning]

Zorb, that is exactly what I was thinking while reading that post. Very difficult
to "typecast" or stereotype and make broad reaching statements about the
masses. We are all individuals and deserve the respect to be treated as such.
Origin of the name---Zorbo????
Something mythical perhaps.

[Ephemera]

Oh, there's some validity to the list.

But it's mostly about acting like a mature person, instead of a horny boy.

Unfortunately, for many that is not self-explanatory.

[Gorgeous Mistake]

Originally Posted by wet_suit_one

So what you are saying Gorgeous is that you can be convinced to be attracted to a man, or if you're a man, you've succeeding in causing a woman to be attracted to you who initially was not? Interesting.... Those are two rather different things in my view and how one acheives the latter is of some interest to me. Do tell...

I'm a chick.

"YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!"

You cannot tell me no one has ever changed her mind about a guy? I know once I did not care much for my ex but once I began to know him all his great qualities made him seem very attractive to me.