wedding date

[duh477]

I got an invitation to my cousins wedding next month and it was addressed to me and mom told me that meant that I could bring a date, Would that be a good idea? because i think weddings are boring, I have one girl I work with that i went out with once a few months ago that I like, but is that okay to bring someone that they don't know? and if not how should i ask her call/text her talk to her at work or what? thanks

[dancingdoc2]

A proper invitation would state you only, or, you and a guest. Things such as etiquette and manners are not always used nowadays, so I would contact your cousin and ask if you may bring a guest.

If this is OK, then contact the person you wish to bring in person or over the phone. DO NOT send a text message or and E-mail.

This is not about you and being bored. This is your cousin's day and you have been invited in support. You have also been invited because you are family. Had you not been I can only imagine the content of this thread.

If you are close or reasonably so to your cousin, then plan to attend. If not or your schedule does not permit you to attend then telephone her with your regrets and send a wedding gift anyway.

Plan on having a good time and then make it happen. If you are bored, you have only yourself to blame much of the time.

[Mr. Saint]

I have never personally taken a date to a wedding, but a friend of mine says it makes a great date, something about romance in the air. Anyways if you can take a guest to the wedding then defiantly take her. As to how to ask her, just be casual and do it in person. Say something like “I’m going to my cousins wedding and it would be a lot more fun if you would go with me”

[Browser]

If you're unsure, you could contact your cousin's immediate family and ask.

[curious_woman]

I agree with what doc says. BUT...don't ask some random girl you never speak to. Being asked to a wedding by someone you're just an acquaintance to is intimidating. 1. you're going to a wedding! a time of commitment and romance...in other words a great way to scare of some girl you just met. 2. all your family will be there, and hey that smells like commitment again. Theres nothing wrong with commitment don't get me wrong, but I think going to a wedding for a first date is a bit strong.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Unless the invitation specifically says "and guest" you may NOT bring a date, period. If you are ever in any doubt on etiquette, consult Miss Manners.
You may call your cousin seeking clarification but remember he/she will be very busy and fraught with details.

A wedding is not just about the bridal pair - it is a welding togethor of two families - this is your chance to get to know the other family. So who are these people? Go find out and stop thinking you're bored.