crushin for years

[Crystable]

Ok where to start.... first off I guess I am 21 in two weeks, and 2 years ago on my 19th bday I had the chance of a life time and I choked.. I was camping with my sister and her friends. And there is this one friend I started crushing on that year when I was 18, and he was 23.. we got along great and there was obviously chemistry... well on my 19th bday we started dancing at the dance and then I ended up in his tent and we made out, hot and heavy and didnt really go past that.. and then we cuddled the whole night.. then after that weekend we talked and he said I was too young for him... BUT we remained close.. I havent seen him lately cause we went seperate ways over the past year because of my job.. But on my up and coming 21st bday I am seeing him again.. I know I still want him, and since my 19th bday I have more experience in the bedroom so to speak,... and I really would like to make my moves on him.. either seduce him or somehow show him I still like him.. any ideas? I am still a lil shy when it comes to putting on the moves but I dont want to miss out again.. this might actually be real.. and seeing we are both older he might see now that I am what he wanted all along...
Please help!!!!!

[Mr. Saint]

I don’t have any experience with seducing guys, but I have one piece of advice. If you are going to make a move on him, make it very obvious to him. Us guys can be vary dense. What may seem obvious to you, he may not even pick up on it.

[Crystable]

what are some bold moves tho? as far as i know i make moves but they must not be bold enough.. cause i usually get looked past

[lnt1103]

Ask him to dance, and lean in close and say...

"Do you remember where we were two years ago tonight? Waddya say we see if we can make tonight even more memorable?"

Unquestionable and yet playful.

[Wahoowa]

i totally agree with lnt1103. you may need to change the wording very slightly to make it sound more you, but that would definitely get the point across.

[Mr. Saint]

That is a pretty good line. There was once this girl I meet. She was the cousin of a family friend. We spent a lot of time together and really hit it off. I liked her but was not sure if she liked me. I was to shy to make a move with out being sure so I never did. One night we were sitting in a hot tub with her cousin. Once he left we talked and flirted a little bit and then all of a sudden she just leaned over and kiss me and then she immediately apologized for doing it. I said it was all right and kissed her back. We were a little young so we did not end up sleeping together but it was still a lot of fun. Just a random story about a bold move a girl made on me. I really liked that she was so bold, if it helps.

[lustforlove]

Yeah I made a bold move on this guy once. I didn't think he was interested in me all that much because he was kind of hanging around with our friends and not talking to me all that much. But one night i just asked him out, i had just thought whats the worst that could happen? so i asked him and to my amazment he said yes. It's been nearly two years and we're still together and i have never felt a bond like it.

[Crystable]

thanks for all the stories and ideas.. i think i like Int1103's suggestion.. i will definately see what i can do with that one!!! i guess it is true that guys like it when girls kinda step up to the plate and be bold...

[lnt1103]

Absolutely they do. My bf says he just LOVES it when I get assertive. He's always telling me how much better things are when I just let myself go and go after what I want.

[EvilEvilKitten]

A bold move? You want a bold move? LOL

Do this:

Catch his eye and hold his glance for at least 20 seconds smiling at him while doing that and wink just before you look away. Wait 5 to 10 minutes. If he has not come up to you in that time, you then go over to him, stand very, very close in front of him, lightly place the middle three fingers of your hand beneath his chin and use them to position his mouth and then lightly brush your lips over his (dry lips are best) in a kind of caress that promises much, then say "Hello."

You should not have to do anything more and can just enjoy the rest of the evening because if he has not grabbed onto you after that opening - the guy's gay.