good sex vs good oral

[inked_up_veteran]

Let me start by saying that I am not very good at intercourse but I've been told that I am great at oral. I was wondering what if you would rather have a partner that was good at sex or a partner that was good at oral.

[emilie]

I've never really got anything from intercourse.
I'd go for oral.

But that's just me.

[EvilEvilKitten]

INTERCOURSE - oral is just an appetizer.

[dancingdoc2]

Similar to the ol' adage "you're not getting older, dear--just better", I prefer a lover who strives to improve over time. So, whether a person has yet to acquire great skill or technique; has some experience, or is a great artist and technician in the art of Eros, if s/he is improving in knowledge and skill, that is all that matters as we continue to age.

[Ducy]

Both have their finer points.

Good oral doesnt compare to good sex. Its like running vs cycling. Running is great in many ways. (but does have downsides) Cycling is also good (but like running has its downsides)

Like EEK said, oral is an appetizer. Although sometimes an appetizer can be substitued for the main course!

[funinthesun]

Depends on many factors, and you should be working to improve on whichever area you find yourself not up to par in. Exercise and focus on coordination, balance, and rhythm. A balance disc, often used for post injury ankle strengthening, can be a great aid to sex. At first stand on one leg and try to remain still - it will take a week to get those muscles you don't use in shape if they're not. Then try to do random things like watch TV and moving your body into different positions and coming to controlled stops. By the time you master that all the tiny muscle groups from your knees to your chest will be perfectly tuned to position your hips to hit whatever spots you want repeatedly without difficulty.

From my personal experience, an off day for oral results in the girl becoming impatient and wanting sex immediately....and mind blowing orgasmic convulsions from oral results in her not knowing what's going on but insistent on me being inside IMMEDIATELY. Good or bad takes things in the same direction.

[Brandye]

I rarely reach orgasm through penetration and thrusting. But when I do, I want him in me NOW. So both are important.

Then, also, my preference for a regular diet is other women. I guess I must like the oral better. Men who are good at oral and then able to enter me ......