05-08-2008, 12:42 PM
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Oh my...................
  
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05-08-2008, 01:10 PM
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05-08-2008, 01:18 PM
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Am I now a "dear" and if so how does obtain that lofty status????
Just got carried away with the "go for it" advice. LOL But once again OH MY.....................
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05-08-2008, 01:23 PM
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And yes, I use "Dear" or "Dearest" as a term of those who endeared to me. Oh my.....now what?
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05-08-2008, 01:50 PM
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There are certain situations in my life that I can deal with quite effectively, and then there are always where I just want to leave and not deal with it.
My current boyfriend is someone who I was with for a very long time, and then I broke up with him after almost five years because quite frankly, he needed to grow up. After a year, I missed him, but part of my thinks I missed him because he was a part of my life when my life was good. When I dated him, my dad was alive, and things were good. I got back together with him just recently around the anniversary of my dad's death of two years. I am not sure if this has something to do with why I got back together with him, but it could be a good reason. I cannot bear to break up with him. When I broke up with him for the first time, he was suicidal, he didn't eat, he was a disaster. How could I do that to someone? His family and friends didn't like me and did not understand why I could break up with him. I have never been dumped, and part of my wishes he would just end it with me, but he is too in love with me to do that. I hate how I always get myself into situations like this. I have never been single since like I was 14, and I think it's about time. I cannot dump my boyfriend. Its not that I am not attracted to him, it's just that I am too young to be in such a serious relationship. I have been in two serious relationships...and both ended badly. They end up hating me and things just become really bad. Things don't get better when I have this thirty year old who likes me. I don't want to be in a relationship, but I need sexual satisfaction, and it is definitely not coming from my current boyfriend. I am afraid I will seek it elsewhere, and I don't think I could live with myself if I did that.
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05-08-2008, 02:05 PM
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Getting into such relationships for long times & seeing what you have is his issues. Suicide? Not an option he is controlling the situation through his threats of self-harm. The answer is not staying, what is next? Marry him so he is healthy and you want to bridge jump?
His matter is his. Your is yours. Now is the time to make a break and not to stay out of fear of hurting him since you will hurt yourself in the end. Think though your life and what makes YOU happy before you jump into an unwanted situation.
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05-08-2008, 02:09 PM
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Thank You very much
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05-08-2008, 02:13 PM
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05-08-2008, 03:50 PM
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Wait I am confused. Are you not happy or do you just want to go out and enjoy life? I mean either way go ahead and do it (not trying to discourage) but I am a little bit lost at what is going on.
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05-12-2008, 02:14 PM
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OKAY here is precisely what you should do:
1. tell you boyfriend GOODBYE! Why? Because he is not willing to do what is necessary, his sex drive is nothing, and he has made HIs problem your problem instead of acting like a man and getting himself fixed up. The guy is a child. You do not have to be nice about it, you do not have to be mean about it - just do it. Turn your back and walk away. 2. Get with this older man. Full grown men are the most fun and most of them are terrific lovers. Who knows - after 2 years, you may find out that you were 'mistaken' about being in love with your ex boyfriend (who should have remained an ex the first time you ditched him). Stop worrying about hurting him and his family. This is YOUR life and now is the time to live YOUR life for YOU.
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