Need advice

[ducktales]

So my gf and I have been dating for a long time. We fool around a lot, oral is as far as ever go though, however, I want to try some new positions maybe but I am concerned as to how to communicate this to her, I don't want to her to think of me as some kind of freak or anything.

Also, she seems to be inhibiting herself a lot when we are fooling around. She's quiet and I guess shy would be the word but after an orgasm she turns into an aggressive and wild woman.

I am mainly afraid that she will think I am a freak for wanting to try new things or that she will think that I think she is a slut for wanting to try new things?

Anyone have any suggestions as to how I should go about telling her?

[sera300]

A long time? How long? Why if you are that close would you not be able to communicate or have such poor feelings of the other for trying something new????

The degrees of uncertainty need to be talked about between you both.

[dancingdoc2]

...And, once the two of you have this chat at a time when the two of you are not about to become intimate, the next thing is to tell her what interests you, and perhaps inquire what things interest her. Once you talk about this, that, and those other things, then when you do become intimate just try out one of those positions, etc. No need to spell it out or say now we are going to try X position. Use "Implied Consent" and move onward until she does stop you. You can read more about IC by reading some of the articles listed in the Index.

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