I want him so bad...what to do?

[sohot4forhim]

I am just out of a 10 year LTR and have no idea how to approach this.

I am extremely attracted to a guy I see about twice a month or so. He works at a place I frequent, I've only seen him there.

He is hot, and I do mean hot in every way. I don't even want anything serious with this guy, it is just an extreme physical attraction. Honestly, I just want to take him into a private area and just **** his brains out, to be blunt about it.

I'm trying to pick up on clues that he would be down for this, but again I have no idea. When we talk, he is nice and compliments my appearance, etc. He notices the changes like hair color, weight loss, even a new outfit.

The problem is that I am extremely, extremely shy and would never have the guts to initiate this. This is so frustrating!! All I can think about is having incredibly hot sex with this man :-(

Please help!

[sera300]

Well, depending on the nature of your encounters...I would just be blunt. The next compliment on your outfit, hand him you phone number and ask him to give you a call (have it already written on a piece of paper). Or place it in his hand, curl his hand around it, and walk away--such as the ladies room. Only do it after a compliment, that's what I would do unless you think he is just being polite to you. I assume he has some sparks for you.