what should i do?

[nina08]

okk.. long story.

so me and this guy met at a party and we hit it off. but almost a week ago he said we need to talk and i had just woken up cuz of the wasl, he had to take it, i didnt. and so i was like ok cuz i didnt do anything wrong. and so he got mad over this stupid text that he sent me that i dont even know what it said (something naughty) that apparently someone else saw and told him about. i told him i didnt know what he was talking about and we got into a small fight.
after we were like it doesnt even matter i asked if we were on the same page. and he goes yeah. then he said i dont know. and i go what do you mean. he said he doesnt know if he still likes me as much as he used to. and he doesnt know if we should still be dating if he isnt going to like me. so i let him think about it the rest of the day. he couldnt really talk cuz later he got his phone taken away, but he did call at like eleven forty at night and asked me to meet him outside my house. when he got there ten minutes later we talked about it and he said i dont know how to start this conversation.

he said that he basically what he said earlier. my stupid ass had to keep asking well what does that mean and stuff like that. so eventually he said that we should just be friends. and he gave me a really long hug and he felt really bad cuz he still cares.

later i was talking to him on aim and i asked if there was any feeling left and he said a little. i was like wtf then why did you end it.. he goes cuz i like you a little bit but a crush is not enough. i said is there even a chance of us getting back together? he goes yeah i just need to think about it.

so six days later.. today. now hes sending me mixed signals. he said hes going to dance with me at our dance and maybe next weekend come teach me how to play poker.and jokingly flirted when i said maybe ill be good and beat you where he replied hahahah maybe. but at other times hes like just bein stupid.

idk. i just really want him back and he still likes me and theres just a bunch of rumors going around that we had sex and stuff. and i know rumors get to him. im friends with his ex. once he hears them he just likes the person he is with less. its stupid. but he still cares for me and still wants to spend time with me when he has the time out of his busy schedule. should i just be flirtatious and try and win him back, cuz i really want him back.. just six days before he ended it he kept calling me his baby (it was new) and said i was one of the best things that happened to him recently and that he wishes he could be with me forever.. and i mean i really care about him. but idk if i should try to sort it out or just stay friends with him and be killed when he meets someone new and i get to hear all about her...


seriously. lots of advice needed. my friends are gay at this stuff.

[cjb1981]

If you want help on this forum, you'll have to use proper punctuation and have decent grammar. Quite a few people here aren't teenagers, and won't bother to try to understand what you're saying. They'll just skip right over your thread, or basically get on your case about it (what I'm doing).

If he broke up with you because of rumors that other people started, then he isn't worth your time or affection. Stop hanging out with him and find someone who won't change their opinion of you based on what others say, as opposed to what you've shown yourself to be. Good luck.

[Brandye]

Show your post to your English teacher.

[nina08]

im not about to sit here and waste time putting quotes and stuff on everything. whats wrong with it anyways besides punctuation and i skipped around a lot. goodness. this place gives great advice!

[Thresher_V]

I tried, but couldn't make it through the 1st paragraph. How can people give advice if they can't understand the question?

[Brandye]

Nina,

Some of us are not English-as-a-first-language and the best advice available here is from mature folks. You want to make it in this world, the first step is to make yourself understandable.

Did you ever wonder what the shift key is for?

[nina08]

i know what is for. for GOING LIKE THIS! I'm not stupid.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Like a whatya do idk but ya may wanna try to like ya know
TELL HIM THIS IS ME, EITHER YOU TRUST ME OR YOU GO HOME
like ya know the point is idk GROW UP and GROW A SET

BOTH OF YOU

Do you see the difference that makes all of the difference in the world?
If you act like a silly idk whatta like hey ya babe - teenybopper air-head, you get treated like you're a teenybopper air-head ya know?

If you behave like a person who deserves respect, you get treated with respect. This is why the quotes, punctuation, and correct grammar and spelling matter. They indicate a person worthy of respect.

Instead of asking "What do you mean?" say "This is what I hear you saying..." and then repeat back to him what he said to you then add "When you say that, I think this..... Now is that what you meant for me to think?"

Hey if you're NOT stupid - stop taking offense when you're properly corrected. Medicine does not always taste good, Nina!

[gorgeous_mistake]

I read it!

Let him go!! Leave it!!
Don't wait around for him! If he can't decide, oh well his loss!
Move on already, don't waste anymore of your time.
You hanging on to him, makes you look desperate.
He knows he has you waiting around, that'll just make him take advantage of you.

MOVE ON NOW

[cjb1981]

Originally Posted by gorgeous_mistake

I read it!

Let him go!! Leave it!!
Don't wait around for him! If he can't decide, oh well his loss!
Move on already, don't waste anymore of your time.
You hanging on to him, makes you look desperate.
He knows he has you waiting around, that'll just make him take advantage of you.

MOVE ON NOW

Yea, me too. And damn it took a lot longer than it should have LOL