03-09-2008, 02:03 PM
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Hi everyone
I'm trying to figure a few things out and am wondering if some here might have some insight... I've been seeing this girl for several months now and having sex with her for about two months... she's a small girl (~5ft and 100lbs) and was a virgin when we first had sex... I'm over 6 ft and while I'm not a big guy, I am above average... the point being that I think I am big for her and as such, we've always made a point to use good amounts of astroglide... I always make sure to get her going well before I penetrate her; I'll do a combination of fingering and eating her out for around 30-60 min easily... she definitely gets going (shallow excited breathing, etc) but she doesn't seem to ever get that wet... she's wet for sure and I can penetrate with my finger easily with no discomfort (two fingers possible but not really so) but is never 'really' wet... What more can a guy do to address this? Right now, I make sure to use plenty of lube but this seems to dry out after a relatively short time (10 or so min)... sometimes she'll complain of a 'burning sensation' when I pull out; I guess this is a friction thing? She's described it feeling similar as to when someone rubs your skin repeatedly... I've also noticed that sometime when I'm fingering her, it'll seem that she 'drys out'... is it possible for her 'run out'? Would drinking more water impact this? In line with the amount of time I finger her, she's commented feeling overstimulated and stops me from touching her... I don't think that she's orgasming, as she can't tell me for sure; most likely, she's not but she has mentioned feeling short bursts of pleasure but never anything 'explosive'... so maybe I'm overstimulating her that way? Or maybe too much attention to her clit? She likes me to spend an extended period of time on it but I am wondering if I give it too much attention... Any thoughts? Much appreciated! 
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03-09-2008, 02:36 PM
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Some women gush to the point of the natural lubrication running down their thighs. Some women do not develop enough for comfortable penetration. Personal lubricants are on the market for a reason. There is nothing you can do about it.
Water based lubricants (K-Y, Surgilube) can be inserted with the same applicator as for vaginal jelly. A full applicator in the vagina will almost always last. While you are at it, why not use vaginal jelly which lubricates and adds contraceptive effectiveness. Many of us get to feeling overstimulated from time to time. Many men really do not know how to use their fingers. A long discussion can help a lot.
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03-09-2008, 04:24 PM
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One thing that works well for us is combinations. Rather than only being in only one spot, hit a couple erogenous zones at once. Play with a nipple at the same time that you're doing something down there. Is there 'one spot' that will immediately turn her on with a mere touch or kiss? IE on her neck or something. Adding layers of sensation can help heighten the experience.
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03-10-2008, 07:06 AM
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Read the sticky posts Body Worship and The Program.
She does need to orgasm. Does she masturbate to orgasm on her own? I hope so...for both of your sakes.
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03-10-2008, 03:58 PM
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03-11-2008, 08:24 AM
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Explain why it is important to her to masturbate to orgasm. Those connections in her brain, you know. You could describe it as "booting up or configuring the operating system". The hardware's there, the software's there, now you just have to connect the two and get them working harmoniously.
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03-12-2008, 07:15 PM
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03-13-2008, 12:57 AM
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For Women Only- Help! Why Can't He Make Me Orgasm? ...and this one, also: The Anatomy of the Female "O", Answered by Brandye & Dancingdoc2 & Inspired by Godiva ...then lastly: Female Sexual Response It sounds like you are aware of what is required, either way, it is important that she know and understand all this, also. Please encourage her to read these articles.
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