03-08-2008, 09:03 PM
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is it normal for an ex to ask about my sex life?
okay i was talking to the man who broke my heart and only wants me for one thing (and i'm the first to admit that i gave in and gave it to him) today and he was asking me about my sex life and the lack of it (thanks to him).
didn't think much of it at the time, as i was just happy to hear his voice after nearly 18 months but he was asking me if i was shagging someone or had shagged someone since he was the last one to have me and i told him that there had been no one since him, which i think suprised him a bit considering he knew i'd been over his way on holiday twice last year, now you would think that if he hadn't seen me for nearly 18 months the last thing he would be asking me about my sex life, why was he interested in my sex life all of a sudden. i mean he was the one who had wanted me every night on the phone, told me in texts etc and then saying that he didn't want me in his life full stop only to want me when it suited him. oh did i mention he was with someone. any insight into this weird request would be most received. kiwigirl  
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03-08-2008, 09:28 PM
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Please do a search on this topic on the forum...go under advanced. Answered many times.
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03-10-2008, 06:58 AM
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Yes, it is normal. He's a lout. Smile nicely, and tell him to mind his own business. Excuse me? He wanted you only for one thing and you gave it to him and broke your 'wittle heart'? Children shouldn't be having sex. So you had sex with a lout? Happens to everyone. Chalk it up to experience, learn to recognise the signs for next time, and move on with your life. I. E. grow up.
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03-10-2008, 10:57 PM
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he didn't break my heart this time, but have learnt from it i think only time will tell. he did however get under my skin again that's the problem, just when i think i'm getting over the guy, he does something and he's back in my head again (maybe he never left) but am trying to get over him, what makes it worse, he's still with someone.
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03-11-2008, 06:59 AM
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Ignore him. Stop answering any calls and move on with life. No messaging him & no talking to him. You are just prolonging the game he is playing through allowing him to be in contact with you. He has a g/f end of story. How much sex you have; not his concern. If you don't talk to him you will not be putting up with these silly questions.
And a jerk like this your stuck on? Come on, do better then this goof ball.
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03-11-2008, 07:36 AM
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I recommend hanging up or not answering when he calls.
Refine your selection procedures.
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03-15-2008, 08:32 PM
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Or you could mess with him and say that you slept with a friend of his.
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03-15-2008, 09:36 PM
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just to throw the cat amoung the pidgeons, tell his wife.... kidding as i would need the proof that he wanted it and that he iniciated it but i still have the e-mails from the previous occasions that he has wanted me to fool around with him and that includes the time between christmas and new year. at that time i didn't know he was married let along still with her. as for this time, i didn't know that she was still with him.
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