is it normal for an ex to ask about my sex life?

[EvilEvilKitten]

NEVER tell the spouse! Why not? Because you have no idea what is going on in that marriage and it is none of your business. Spouses and families other than your own are off limits.

Be adult.

[kiwigirl]

i haven't and that would be up to him to do if it came down to it. he still has his profile hidden on the internet dating site that we met on (have it marked as a favouite that's how i know). maybe he's forgotten about it and hasn't taken it off who knows. as a friend of mine said, he lost the right to know about my sex life when he ditched me in Brisbane in november 2006. i am trying to move on and am starting to get to know someone else but as a friend only. we've talked only via e-mail and have gone through a q and a session on the site that we met on, so i'm trying my best to get of the two timing jerk'

[sera300]

Originally Posted by kiwigirl

i haven't and that would be up to him to do if it came down to it. he still has his profile hidden on the internet dating site that we met on (have it marked as a favouite that's how i know). maybe he's forgotten about it and hasn't taken it off who knows. as a friend of mine said, he lost the right to know about my sex life when he ditched me in Brisbane in november 2006. i am trying to move on and am starting to get to know someone else but as a friend only. we've talked only via e-mail and have gone through a q and a session on the site that we met on, so i'm trying my best to get of the two timing jerk'

Just stop. Enough chaer about a guy who is long gone. BFD he was married, learn next time to identify this. It's really easy....get smart quick. Move one and drop all contact with him.

[Thresher_V]

Most guys on dating sites are married, unless they're really, really desperate and those aren't exactly the pick of the litter. Once in awhile you might find one that isn't and is a good catch, but you should wait awhile before meeting and then only in public areas. Also never have the mindset that "this is the one". I've fallen for that one a few times myself. If things don't work out and they take the news well, stay friends, but avoid any talk about "us". Again, been there, after awhile you'll fade apart and each will find you're own path...

Just my 2 cents anyway.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Thresher_V

Most guys on dating sites are married, unless they're really, really desperate and those aren't exactly the pick of the litter. Once in awhile you might find one that isn't and is a good catch, but you should wait awhile before meeting and then only in public areas. Also never have the mindset that "this is the one". I've fallen for that one a few times myself. If things don't work out and they take the news well, stay friends, but avoid any talk about "us". Again, been there, after awhile you'll fade apart and each will find you're own path...

Just my 2 cents anyway.

I just thought they were expanding their horizons on suitable women; people you would not have come into contact with normally. If they are local, I try to meet fast...see what they are lying about & if I want to potentially see them again. Generally not worth talking to again. Just one---my ex fiance. I am on a dating sabbatical.

[EvilEvilKitten]

I quite like married men. They have to go home.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

I quite like married men. They have to go home.

Single women can get single men to go home too I don't always intend on being he local bed & breakfast! might enjoy you but does not mean I want to wake up next to you--I know it's rude. I know how to go home as well!

[EvilEvilKitten]

Of course but that means you have to tell them to go. Married guys - you don't have to say a word! You can lounge about, looking lovely and just grin and laugh. Teasing the poor fellow, you know.