03-02-2008, 05:05 PM
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I did nothing wrong!
Ok long story short...
My bf and I went to a plutonic friends party last saturday(we are ages 17-23) We were having a good time and my neighbour (whom my bfs brothers gf has an issue with) showed up with three guys. There was this one guy who kept bothering me and put his cell # into my phone. After an exchange in words I will sadly admit I lost my temper and did place a nice little punch to his face. Now this happened a week or more ago. This guy added me to facebook and I deleted him, I also deleted his # off my phone the next morning. This weekend however everything seemed to happen all at once. Some people are telling my bf that I asked for this guys number when i didnt, and are telling him myself and this guy have been talking non-stop since we ment which is ridiculous. I know this guys rep and its not a good one. My neighbour I guess brought this guy in order to "encourage" me to break up with my bf and date this random (never going to happen) Long story short my bf is being told by our plutonic friend among other ppl that I asked for this guys number and other things along those lines, such as flirting with him and stuff which I believe I wasnt. We tried to talk it out and I have an idea where my bf is getting this info. Recently a friend of his moved in with this "random" guy so I believe this one friend of his is getting the information from this guy and telling my bf everything this guy says. It may be confusing to understand so please feel free to ask to clear anything up. I am very upset about this and I told my bf EXACTLY what happened and he says he believes me but hes not sure what to do and hes more ticked at the fact that people are getting involved and "stoking the fire" so to speak.. ...please any help/advice or anything is very appreciated...please no flames though...and if you must flame me be polite... 
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03-02-2008, 05:38 PM
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Wow - you're acting like any of this actually matters? Welcome to highschool...
Honestly, I find the idea of a 23 year-old being involved with a 17 year-old quite "odd", to be polite. I'm 21 and I can count the number of highschoolers I associate with on 0 hands. Sorry, but when an adult male is hanging around people that haven't even left the nest yet, and dating them, it tells me that there's something seriously wrong with him. You'd be better off single...
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03-02-2008, 05:55 PM
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Let it blow over, let him contemplate the truthfulness of the issue. If he chooses not to believe you; his loss & move on.
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03-02-2008, 05:58 PM
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The long and the short of it--get new friends. These are not friends at all if they are sabotaging you.
I agree with oedi, it is unusual for a 23 y/o and a 17 y/o to have any sort of relationship other than casual. There is way too large a gap in life experiences, maturity, interests, not to mention the possibility of legal issues if you are not considered an adult where you live. Better me thinks to keep your friendships with people who are no older than 19.
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03-03-2008, 03:19 AM
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See ive heard ever "issue" about our age difference and thats never been an issue with us. I act older then my age (or that i may let on) and he does act younger. Its hard to explain but the age has never been an issue at all.
I would just like advice on what to do in this situation...
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03-03-2008, 04:02 AM
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Get rid of these so-called friends, they do not care about you. If they did they would accept and support yo u, regardless of their personal feelings. As for your boyfriend, if he really trusts/loves you, he'll know you're telling the truth and won't fall for teenage drama. If not, well he's not worth your time. If you act older as you say, high school drama should be below both of you and you should both be adult enough to not pay attention to idle jealous gossip.
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03-03-2008, 07:28 PM
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It is "platonic" not plutonic.
In a very loud voice so everyone can hear you, say "You are creepy. Go Away." then ignore him. Pretend he doesn't exist. The magic word here is "creepy". Next, STOP BEING NICE & DUMP YOUR 'FRIENDS'.
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03-03-2008, 08:03 PM
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What you do in this situation is ignore it and get some real friends...
Ah yes, the classic "I act older" excuse. That doesn't actually make you any older than you are. The issue with your age difference is quite simply that any 23 year-old guy that dates girls who are still in highschool is a TOTAL LOSER. Do you really want to be a loser's girlfriend? Why do you think he isn't with a girl his own age? I'll bet it's because they know better... Take a look back through all the posts you've made here in the past - you have an extremely rich history of making bad choices and letting people treat you like garbage. When the hell are you ever going to learn from your mistakes and start expecting better for yourself? You don't date 11 year old boys, do you? Of course you don't - But that wouldn't be much different from what this guy is doing...
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03-04-2008, 03:27 AM
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Ive heard all these age comments before and I did not post here wanting to hear "Dump him hes too old" and "creepy" I only wish to know what I should do in this situation. If it is thta I should dump him please only say "dump him" I dont want to hear about the age crap. And also these friends are NOT my friends. Yes ive known these people my entire life but they are more his friends then mine.
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