guys are hella confusing.

[nina08]

For those of you who read my last post, you should know who steve is.

update. i broke up with tyler. me and steve still have a thing.

problem.

we just hook up, but i dont know if he actually likes me or if he just wants to hook up. its hella confusing cuz he likes to party and he is also a junior, me a freshman. so yeah. and gahhh it makes me want to rip out my hair cuz its confusing. if im making no sense feel free to ask questions because there are so many things to say i forgot them all!!

so. should i just act cool and not care that its just hooking up
or should i be like hey steve i like you do you like me or something like that
or just be like whats between us.
or anything else you may have to suggest

help.

[Ducy]

Ask him whats up...say what do you want?

I mean if you like hooking up with him, and you tell him you like him, you risk not hooking up if he doesnt hav similar feelings.

Junior and freshman in college right?

[nina08]

no in high school. when i say hook up i mean make out. yeah, i really dont want to risk that cuz my sister already has by effin shooting his car with her paintball gun cuz he bamboozled her or something. idk. and if i ask him.. he could just not reply or see me as clingy. WHICH I DONT WANT. cuz i admit i can be clingy. but i cant cling cuz technically there is no relationship for me to be clingy of i guess.

[Ducy]

OKay...second sentence is confusing....

But here is the thing...you cant say guys are confusing if you dont bother to ask him....I mean do you guys chill outside of high school? Cuz to be honest A lot of guys in high school are just horney and want sex...they dont care about anything else...Now once they hit college and mature they generally look for a relationship (take note, this isnt all boys, just majority)

[EvilEvilKitten]

OMG so hey like ya know if he's hooking up with you ya know I'd guess he like likes you because hey if like he didn't he'd be off after someone else like maybe hey?

If he wants to be with you then he likes you - DUH!!!!!
*insert a rolling of the eyes here*

Guys aren't at all confusing. They are essentially very easy to understand.
They do what they like to do with those they like to do those things with.
This applies to everything including sex.

Now then - never cling and stop looking for a relationship - we're just having fun and getting some social experience here - not a relationship. That comes later- like college.

[Thresher_V]

Damn, had to break out my Slang dictionary for that one and I was around for the "Narley, Radical, and Gag Me With A Spoon" days, lol.

[Ducy]

Wow EEK...so you were one of those high school kids eh? Wow...

[gorgeous_mistake]

Hey I'm in highschool! Don't compare us all. I actually like to speak with an intellectual tongue! But wow, that was hilarious EEK!

[dancingdoc2]

A freshman student is too young to seriously date. At fourteen/fifteen you are just making the transition from social interaction with girls to boys. This is a maturity and development part of changing from a child into an adult. I recommend that you do not date seriously (read: exclusively) until you are ready to settle down. Until then, date lots of guys and learn about us. Doing so will make it easier when the time does come to choose Mr. Right. In the meantime, have fun and lots of different experiences with lots of different fellas.

[sera300]

Fore the most part, yes he likes you. He will continue to like women since he is beginning his excursions in life as you should. No great emotional attachment, not exclusive relationships, date others form different schools, and keep yourself quiet about it!

Get serious when you are ready to marry....