Kiss on First Date?

[Sadfase]

Hello. Just for the record I am a 23 year old male. lol?

Anyway so i was invited by a friend of a friend to attend this girl and her sister's mansion party. It was fun just a couple people, I of course got pretty drunk on 151.

Ended up talking to one of the sisters, younger one, she's either 19 or 20, and she seemed to be really into me. Lotta arm touching, sat really close and hung on my every word. Or at least seemed to. Also talked to her and her sister about skiing and they even invited me to come stay with them this coming weekend to ski.

So anyway knowing all this, and knowing that this girl might actually, genuinely like me, do you think I should move in and kiss her on the first date?

Play it bold? or play it reserved? She was pretty quiet the night of the party but Saturday i was texting her and I got to see a little bit of attitude, some flash, flare even.

What do you think?

[sera300]

If you are 23, and you have scheduled a date with her, most anticipate you will attempt to kiss them on the first date unless it's a disaster. If you do not try? It's a bit odd at 23. Ps. do not drink like that while out.

[Sadfase]

Originally Posted by sera300

If you are 23, and you have scheduled a date with her, most anticipate you will attempt to kiss them on the first date unless it's a disaster. If you do not try? It's a bit odd at 23. Ps. do not drink like that while out.

I actually wasn't that loaded. I managed to hold a conversation with her throughout the night and play pool. I literally only had 3 drinks with 151 (strong tho heh). and 2 maybe 3 beers. After i just drank water. If anything she drank as much as I did, I hadn't eaten though.

And no worries. I never drink when I'm driving. My buddy drove me there and home.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Sadfase

I actually wasn't that loaded. I managed to hold a conversation with her throughout the night and play pool. I literally only had 3 drinks with 151 (strong tho heh). and 2 maybe 3 beers. After i just drank water. If anything she drank as much as I did, I hadn't eaten though.

And no worries. I never drink when I'm driving. My buddy drove me there and home.

Okay...well, if you have a date you need to be certain you are prepared to kiss her. Just don't get "sloshed....ps. Don't be in awe of her finances either...

[Sadfase]

Originally Posted by sera300

Okay...well, if you have a date you need to be certain you are prepared to kiss her. Just don't get "sloshed....ps. Don't be in awe of her finances either...

I'm really not actually (in awe of the finances). The girl I dated previously had a dad who filed for bankruptcy like 6 months ago. and her mom cut her off so I actually ended up paying for a lot of stuff. Nothing extravagent (like jewelry, furniture etc) just enough to know she was being treated like a lady. And she didn't even expect that she was real cool and down to earth. Didn't work out cos of distance.

I plan on paying for today too, no big deal I don't really spend my money only anything besides bare essentials, WoW, and uhhh maybe some take out every once in a while.

And I am prepared to kiss her and have been told I'm a good kisser, but its just that shes like 19 or 20 and she does know im 23 i made sure to say that a couple times last night lol cos I know age is a big thing. I don't wanna scare her away

[sera300]

I think a 23 y/o man would scare me more if he did NOT try to kiss me. When younger I dated older men, not a bit deal when you are 19 or 20. If you were 30+ that might scare her off! Just take her out and be a gentleman, relax, and have a nice time. If you hit it off, there is nothing wrong with kissing her; you should have a better feel as the date goes on if she has interest. It this point she has met you and is interested in a date; therefore, no real worries.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Just move in close, wrap her in your big strong arms, hold her gently but firmly, and then kiss her - holding it for at least 20 seconds. Then smile at her and let her go.

Think of this kiss as a CARESS of her lips with yours and NOT as an invitation to stick your big sloppy wet tongue down her throat, thank you. You want to keep this EROTIC and SENSUOUS. Got it?

[Ducy]

YES!!! Leave her wanting more

EEK you should teach a class on seduction!

[DerickD]

EEK, this is gonna sound stupid I'm sure lol, but when you said hold the kiss for 20 seconds does that mean kiss her once and suck her lips for 20 seconds (which is what i think you meant), or does that means kiss her for 20 seconds (more then one peck but not stopping).

Yep I have so much to learn.

[EvilEvilKitten]

One kiss lasting 20 seconds.