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Old 02-11-2008, 06:22 PM
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Was it a one night stand?

Ok, let me start off by saying, I dont have much experience with one night stands.. So i was at the bar the other day and i ran into this guy whos same age as me (21) and we used to work together two years ago. We were both drunk and he said he always had a crush on me, and i told him about the crush i had on him, and he was like i know it wasnt hard to miss.. we made out a few times before he said we should get a hotel room, because he lives with his parents and so do i.. sorry i tend to ramble a lot so bare with me.. this part was kinda funny, when we first went into the room we started kissing and we both fell asleep while he was laying on top of me lol... well when we woke up we had sex and he was saying that im pretty and that he likes me.. well we fell back to sleep and around 3pm i heard him get up so i acted like i was still asleep and he got dressed and walked out the door and didnt say anything so i dono what that means.. does that mean that it was just a one night stand type thing? i even told him when he said he liked me, i was like no whatever and he was like would i have made out with you that many times if i didnt...

I must be the most naivest person in the whole world! so please dont spare my feelings tell me up front what you think that ment.. so far he hasnt contacted me.. i should just forget about him thanks
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Old 02-11-2008, 06:35 PM
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I think that was more of "one night stand while drunk"...is he going to call? No. Go on with your life and forget about it. I assume you did use proper BC & Condoms. If not get yourself checked ASAP.

Ps...him not calling has nothing to do with sleeping with him or not...has to do with it was merely a "random hookup".
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Old 02-11-2008, 11:36 PM
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Yup, that's a one night stand. Who knows why he left; it could be he regretted it, could be that he didn't want his parents asking questions, or it could be he wanted to avoid the awkward morning after. As for the comments, we say nice things in the heat of the moment and when drunk. I assume he did like you and was attracted to you enough to want to have sex with you. That doesn't mean he wants a relationship tho. Just move on. And if you meet someone and have sex with them immediately, don't expect to hear back. On rare occasions a one time thing turns into more, but in most cases if you meet and have sex with a stranger (or in this case acquaintance), it's just that.
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Yup! what she said.

It might also mean:
* he got his rocks off pretty inexpensively
* talk is cheap and means nothing unless backed up with actions
* he had to get home so there would be less or nothing to explain to mom
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Old 02-12-2008, 06:01 AM
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Maybe hes normally a conservative man, and felt bad about jumping your bones without dinner and a movie first.
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Old 02-12-2008, 01:55 PM
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More likely he simply took advantage of an opportunity - as did you. Call him or forget it.
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Old 02-12-2008, 08:05 PM
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Ok, let me start off by saying, I dont have much experience with one night stands.. So i was at the bar the other day and i ran into this guy whos same age as me (21) and we used to work together two years ago. We were both drunk and he said he always had a crush on me, and i told him about the crush i had on him, and he was like i know it wasnt hard to miss.. we made out a few times before he said we should get a hotel room, because he lives with his parents and so do i.. sorry i tend to ramble a lot so bare with me.. this part was kinda funny, when we first went into the room we started kissing and we both fell asleep while he was laying on top of me lol... well when we woke up we had sex and he was saying that im pretty and that he likes me.. well we fell back to sleep and around 3pm i heard him get up so i acted like i was still asleep and he got dressed and walked out the door and didnt say anything so i dono what that means.. does that mean that it was just a one night stand type thing? i even told him when he said he liked me, i was like no whatever and he was like would i have made out with you that many times if i didnt...

I must be the most naivest person in the whole world! so please dont spare my feelings tell me up front what you think that ment.. so far he hasnt contacted me.. i should just forget about him thanks
Uhhhhhhhhh who paid for the room??
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Old 02-12-2008, 08:56 PM
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he paid for the room.... thanks for the replys, from now on im not gonna do that anymore.. sucks but oh well i'll get over it..
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