I have some serious need for dating/sex advice

[Queen_of_Self_Destruction]

I'm going out with the most amazing, most sweetest guy on the planet right now, whom I've known for a little over a year. A year ago we weren't dating but I liked him and it was clear he had feelings for me but I pushed him away. The thing is we've been so close to having sex so many times and I really want to it's just I've had two very bad sexual experiences before I met him. The first time I lost my virginity, I was stoned out of my mind and I slept with one of my close guy friends and the other time I felt forced to because the guy I was going out with was abusive. Believe me, I love this guy with all my heart, it's just he's ****ed so many people and I'm afraid I wont be any good. I'm sure I have nothing to worry about, I'm just really insecure. I'd really appreciate some feedback.
Thanks!

[sera300]

If you have not had good experiences it does not matter. If he is experienced learn from him. Don't go into this with high expectations; take it for what it is. Look through the initial index http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/inde...tml#post180103

Read through the sections and don't keep up the Queen of Doom & Gloom.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Congrats upon getting rid of your virginity. As for the abusive guy - do not put yourself into such a position ever again. This is your body and your life - OWN IT! Stop with the drugs as well since they will own your body and your life instead of you. That is just another kind of slavery people do not need.

Now then, this fellow here may have slept with every woman in the free world but he hasn't slept with YOU! That is the point! YOU are totally unlike every other woman on the planet. You are special in that regard. Therefore, there is no need for you to feel insecure.

Each man has his own style when it comes to sex. What you endured before, you probably will not have to endure with him. An experienced man is usually the best choice for an inexperienced woman so you have selected well this time. The issue then is one of his manners. He is to treat with you with the greatest consideration for your comfort and enjoyment. If he shows you this consideration, relax and have fun - he's a good guy.