I'm Very Happy

[KMB]

Hey it's been a while, I thought I would tell you that My boyfriend makes me soo happy and He's really sweet. I'm very lucky to have him. We've been going out for a month now. I trust him a great deal. He's very respective of me and me to him.

Just thought I would tell you all is well in my dating life.

[Emily69]

good for you

[KMB]

Thanks, It's the only thing I feel happy and good about in my life right now. I'm glad I have my boyfriend.

[HardNgood]

KMB, you have to be able to be happy with yourself FIRST...If you can't find happiness within yourself, you will soon feel victimized. I've read your other posts about being snappy to others, at least you realize a problem..good for you for admitting that! You could be putting pressure on your boyfriend by telling him he is responsible for your happiness...we are all incharge of our own feelings, someone else just enhances the deal to be so sad about part of yourself in other postings and then being so happy with the above post, raises some red flags..learn to have self respect, to have control on your emotions, be able to love yourself first and be able to make yourself happy in a healthy way..good luck!

[KMB]

Your very right the funny thing is I was just thinking, I'm very protective of myself I don't let anyone hurt me. I wish I could show that the same way on my anger and being happy.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by HardNgood

KMB, you have to be able to be happy with yourself FIRST...If you can't find happiness within yourself, you will soon feel victimized. I've read your other posts about being snappy to others, at least you realize a problem..good for you for admitting that! You could be putting pressure on your boyfriend by telling him he is responsible for your happiness...we are all incharge of our own feelings, someone else just enhances the deal to be so sad about part of yourself in other postings and then being so happy with the above post, raises some red flags..learn to have self respect, to have control on your emotions, be able to love yourself first and be able to make yourself happy in a healthy way..good luck!

Well stated. Have to look at the point as well; what if he is no longer part of your life. No one can make you whole...only you. Then happiness is found with another since there is not such degrees of dependence.

[KMB]

Oh I don't want that to happen, I do care for myself is that a good thing?

[sera300]

Originally Posted by KMB

Oh I don't want that to happen, I do care for myself is that a good thing?

Caring about yourself is a good thing, just don't base your sole happiness on another person. Have to be happy within yourself and try to remain that way no matter what. If a man leaves? Have a hobby or something which keeps you occupied and interested!

[KMB]

Alright