move on? cheating?

[thedeparted00]

Coherent English? I have a very good education and job. One many will never match. If I missed a piece it's because many fed up. Suicide has been your answer.

Get an education and complete it. Try a PhD dear.

Yes, many vent...you carry one about the most absurd thoughts; mainly your fixation with death.

Many have just chosen to ignore you...due to your insane thoughts.

[thedeparted00]

Additionally, I think you keep up the rebuttal which holds no validity to gain attention of others. It's obvious you cannot conduct your life.

[thedeparted00]

Originally Posted by oedipussy

Oh geez - is this seriously that hard? This is what we call a "no-brainer"... Do you want to be in a relationship WITH YOUR PHONE or would you rather have the real thing? This "ex" is in another state - he may as well not even exist. MOVE ON WITH YOUR DAMN LIFE.

Save yourself for someone you see, what, four times a year? Quit being ridiculous. You don't owe anyone anything. Time to grow up and start acting like a woman rather than a needy little girl... Forget the ex. You'll be happier for it.

Watch out oedi---she shall be chasing you next. Moves state to state find someone she hardly knows. Lost soul.

[HardNgood]

WOW...yer kinda HARSH dude! You have to understand that thing about Venus and Mars..I'm not talking astrology here...or do I mean astronomy...LOL

[thedeparted00]

Originally Posted by HardNgood

WOW...yer kinda HARSH dude! You have to understand that thing about Venus and Mars..I'm not talking astrology here...or do I mean astronomy...LOL

Hey DUDE MAN....Life is about much more then constant problems and moving around the US for guys you really don't know. Want to vent? Do it. Want to chat do it...many here listen. Reject everyone's thoughts and carry on about suicide & morbidity in Oedi's you tube thread? It's quite disturbing. Maybe shes the one for you?

I cannot go to school, I cannot have sex, lube hurts, I had a threesome to appease my ex? What is she the door mat for all? I don't want to cheat...he dumped me after I moved across the US to see him & using a test message he dumped me. SHE needs to lean independence, self-esteem & self value.

Then there are the days she wants to kill herself...

[HardNgood]

Good Luck to you EVER getting a date!! sometimes a fella has to date "outside" the box inorder to get uhhh ummm his willie wet!

[sera300]

Originally Posted by HardNgood

Good Luck to you EVER getting a date!! sometimes a fella has to date "outside" the box inorder to get uhhh ummm his willie wet!

Okay "wet willy"....LOL!

[Ducy]

Wait....how do you have a threesome if you cant even have sex?

[EvilEvilKitten]

Now, now, calm down - Since when has Evil ever said anything nicely?

Em: stop being a doormat for men to wipe thier feet on. You own you. No one else! Only you own you. So take charge of youself.

You don't feel right dating more than one at a time because you were taught to be a 'good girl' - well, you have seen the rewards 'good girls' get - so try being a 'bad woman' instead. Can you imagine any man treating me like they have treated you? NO - they wouldn't dare! They'd be ripped apart so fast they'd wonder what locomotive just ran over them! Sweety, what you were taught about sex, love, dating etc. is wrong! Men, in general, want most and value most what they have to work to get. So make them EARN your respect, love, and so forth by NOT being exclusive, by NOT being nice and accomodating, by demanding they deliver what you want and require in a man. Make them sweat a bit! You do not have to be a bitch about it. Just be cool, calm, and confident.

When he flirts, laugh with them and tell him he's cute making it clear you don't believe a word of it. If he asks for a, b, or c, tell him you'll consider his request once he's applied for it in triplicate. Keep it all light and fun but make sure he knows that everything and anything happens on YOUR terms and YOUR terms alone. Any balking on his part always results in a "NO, thank you for playing".

For example: there's this fellow R who with his lovely wife ,also R, swings. She's great, he's creepy. He'd love getting with me but frankly - that is not going to happen. He makes passes at me, knowing full well, the answer is no. He's teasing, because I might 'weaken' but he's also enjoying the game. I''m the "Unattainable Seductive Witch" who delights in tormenting him by paying little attention to him, laughing at him, and standing next to him at swing parties while wearing only stilettos and a suit coat.

It is a GAME, Em. Lighten up and roll with it!