Is it worth it?

[GreatamericanChallenge]

I recently returned from college and started hanging out with friends from before. The problem is my friend "sara" has a b/f and we were really close before I went to school. I called a few weeks ago and we hung out and we had a great time.

The few weeks were spotty since I work and she goes to school still. I was chatting with her causally online one weekend and she found out i was going to the mall and she invited herself, which I do not mind (cause I really like her). That day was great and she tried to stay with me as long as possible after we left the mall. She even ignored her boyfriends calls while we were out.

The next day after the mall she calls me and asks me hangout with her. It is sort of weird for her to call me and initiate the meetings (I think she is doesnt like being pushy). That day we spent all day together and we became close when we were sitting and so I tried to see how far I could go. I put my arm around her for a bit and rested my legs over hers. Its the sort of thing that would have never happened before I left.

Now she has been talking to me everyday like 3 or 4 times a day on the phone and hanging out a few times a week. This has been going on for about 2 and a half weeks.

So my question is, do you think she is showing signs that she likes me or is it that since she is a little bit older now that she is just a bit less conservative?
Any comments would be nice!

[sera300]

Go with the flow...sounds as if she has feelings for you. Don't question her motives..

[maupassant]

Yes, no harm done, but try to find out the motives then you won't end up with a tricky triangle! Be honest.

[GreatamericanChallenge]

Yea, I am sorta trying to figure her out cause like 3 weeks ago she got into a huge fight with her boyfriend cause he was mad I was out with her and a few friends bowling. And to make a long story short she almost got his ass BEAT but her older cousin. She was to the point of breaking up with him and then her cousin(who was really drunk) decided to try and patch things up with them instead. But what I cant figure out is how you can go from having so much anger towards a person that you wanna see them get gang beating to hugging them like 2 mins later? She was never like this before?

[sera300]

Originally Posted by GreatamericanChallenge

Yea, I am sorta trying to figure her out cause like 3 weeks ago she got into a huge fight with her boyfriend cause he was mad I was out with her and a few friends bowling. And to make a long story short she almost got his ass BEAT but her older cousin. She was to the point of breaking up with him and then her cousin(who was really drunk) decided to try and patch things up with them instead. But what I cant figure out is how you can go from having so much anger towards a person that you wanna see them get gang beating to hugging them like 2 mins later? She was never like this before?

Fine love between love and hate????

[EvilEvilKitten]

She sounds young and confused. I'd not be in too much of a hurry to get with her. If she wants to not be exclusive, then she should SAY SO and get on with it. The thing about having her cousin beat the bf up is ridiculous!!

Are you SURE this is a gf you really need?

[GreatamericanChallenge]

Not really but she is amazing so I hope she is worth it cause her boyfriend just broke up with her so lol I guess Ill see whats up soon.

BTW I really like to scrap so I hope I get a round with her cousin lol

[maupassant]

Originally Posted by GreatamericanChallenge

Not really but she is amazing so I hope she is worth it cause her boyfriend just broke up with her so lol I guess Ill see whats up soon.



BTW I really like to scrap so I hope I get a round with her cousin lol

Sorry but I am not sure that liking to scrap is an attribute of the admirable sort. Calm down.

[machine_rat]

If you and her become a couple, you're going to have to ask yourself if you'd be comfortable with her acting the way she did with you around other guys.

[THQMA5]

Well im no expert on girls but from, some teenage friends i no theyve gone through a time of liking other girls.
So it could be a phase thats she's in, like getting to no her body ect. But just play it safe dont hurt her or do something stupid.