I worry a lot

[KMB]

on how the relationship will go and how long it will last. Will he treat me right? I just want to think about this before I start anything serious with this guy. I always worry when he doesn't call me or talk to me.

I do notice though I worry a lot and I am very protective of myself especially with guys.

It's not just relationships either it's everything almost.

and I want to call him every time I feel like talking to him then I worry that I will mess it up or he won't want to talk to me cause he's busy with who knows what.

ok I take it's normal LOL sorry you can close this thread if you all want.

[EvilEvilKitten]

KMB STOP!
Oh dear lord, you're "future-thinking!" Cut it out!
You'll drive yourself nuts and drive him away if you go on like this!

Throttle back!
Give the guy room to breathe, dammit!

You're like some in-trouble swimmer who strangles the rescuing lifeguard!

One day at a time. Breathe. Relax, Slow down. Now go and masturbate or something! Jeez!

[KMB]

EEK!!

Just give me a God Damn break, I'm only 17 and just learning on relationships.

and You have no idea what is going on right now!!!

So Leave me a lone and I'm sorry I made this thread

[sera300]

KMB:

Take your frustrations out where they belong. He has again upset you; you have every right to be mad at him...it's called venting....

[KMB]

he has, but sometimes I do the misunderstanding and I cry without knowing a reason and I worry a lot.

I'm sorry I didn't mean to swear and everything just having a hard time and like I said I'm young and don't expect to know much yet.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by KMB

he has, but sometimes I do the misunderstanding and I cry without knowing a reason and I worry a lot.

I'm sorry I didn't mean to swear and everything just having a hard time and like I said I'm young and don't expect to know much yet.

Sweetie: Much depends on hormones...go to the gyn and and see if they can stabilize then out. It will make you less reactive. Skip the anti-depressants...ask for a prescription for low dose Valium...to take the edge off the mood swings. And find a hobby--not him. Realize Rochester is dreary this time of year...find a tanning bed. Then get some hobbies which do not include him but allow you to talk about something in common.

There was a comerical years back "be your own dog". Try volunteering at the local animal shelter...the love you give them, they are so grateful for & yes, you will be able to say no...I cannot have them all. Look at petsalive.org. Yes they are downstate but you can do work remotely...fill out their cookbook with a recipe or two...doe not have to be your alone! Offer home checks for them upstate...earn to sew and make dog covers for eithr beds or for warmth...many stores will donate the supplies...or knit a coat for one or two...

[maupassant]

Originally Posted by KMB

on how the relationship will go and how long it will last. Will he treat me right? I just want to think about this before I start anything serious with this guy. I always worry when he doesn't call me or talk to me.

I do notice though I worry a lot and I am very protective of myself especially with guys.

It's not just relationships either it's everything almost.

and I want to call him every time I feel like talking to him then I worry that I will mess it up or he won't want to talk to me cause he's busy with who knows what.

ok I take it's normal LOL sorry you can close this thread if you all want.

Sorry you have had a bit of a problem and hope you get it sorted out. I worry about things in life and hate to offend anybody, so much so that after a meeting I come away worrying if I could have put something better.
I don't think love is a tightrope. If this guy really is the bee's knees, then you should feel safe. I would worry if I was uptight with a person who should be the greatest and most solid support in my life. Good luck

[EvilEvilKitten]

KMB - take a deep breath. Grab your courage in both hands. Hold onto it tightly. Learn to control yourself. If Nash could control his schizophrenia without meds - you should be able to control these free-wheeling emotions of yours. You are a good and worthy person. Believe it and act as the good and worthy person you are. Focus upon school and then college. Your life is before you and it is yours to make it what you will. Kid in a candy store - hun! No excuses permitted!


Did you notice that when she got angry at me - she stopped being so silly? *evil grin*. Now if only we can get her to get angry more often - we'll have her stomping all over and asserting herself! Yeehaw! Betcha most of her 'problems' would disappear at that point!

[KMB]

Thanks to all of you.

I will listen to everyone of you, and maybe if I'm busy a lot like Tim is I won't worry as much.

We are still going out but to keep it that way I just may have to change myself a bit too.

I still will be with Tim only I will focus more on School since I only have almost a year left.

[EvilEvilKitten]

*cackling all the way to the broom store!*