Pleasing Her mom. Advice Please

[koncadonk]

Ok so I have never had a problem with pleasing my past girlfriends parents especially the moms they loved me because I was allways willing to help around their homes when i was over or help them run errands and such when they were ill. Anyways I started going out with this girl about a week ago we have been flirting and talking and hanging out for about 6 months. She had a boyfriend and he hit her and used her for sex but her mom loved him and hates me for some reason, she hasnt even taken the liberty of talking to me. I really care about her, and i LOVE her. Im 19 and she is 17 and will be 18 in 7 months her parents wont let her talk to me or let her text me. I see her at her work and while shes on break we talk and every once in a while we go out but i really want to change whatever the deal with her mom is. I NEED HELP BECAUSE dont know what to do! Her mom also doesnt like that i am over 18 but her ex is like 6 months younger than me... and thats not much of a difference..

[oedipussy]

There's a funny joke here, but I'm too classy to point it out...

As far as your question is concerned, it's always been my policy to not care what someone's parents think of me.

[sera300]

Are you certain she is truthful with you? Did she tell her parents? Perhaps if she did not, they cannot understand why she let him go???

Or she is playing you.

[koncadonk]

Originally Posted by sera300

Are you certain she is truthful with you? Did she tell her parents? Perhaps if she did not, they cannot understand why she let him go???

Or she is playing you.

I know shes not playing me ive seen her ex hit her before and then i hit him. Also her parents are kinda immature sometimes i think I am smarter and more responsible then them, her dad is threatening to throw her and her mom out on the streets and he has met me and he asked me some really ignorant questions, and by ignorant i mean "you got any N-word friends?" and so on.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by koncadonk

I know shes not playing me ive seen her ex hit her before and then i hit him. Also her parents are kinda immature sometimes i think I am smarter and more responsible then them, her dad is threatening to throw her and her mom out on the streets and he has met me and he asked me some really ignorant questions, and by ignorant i mean "you got any N-word friends?" and so on.

Sounds as if you are caught up in an abusive household. She has to want to walk out on her own and establish her own life not with you....you are not the savior. You will end up in the midst of a family feud...to be mild.

Walk away now...you need to be safe. She needs to be her own woman.

[koncadonk]

yea im not just gonna walk away because she cant exactly just walk out.

[koncadonk]

legally she cant do anything without her delinquent parents permission for about half a year and if she runs away to me thats fine i can take care of her in my apt but then her parents would get me in trouble for something called "aiding to the delinquency of a minor" and its punishable by prison time since its a fellony. Thanks for the help you have shown to be self endulgant bitches and i should not have asked in the first place.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by koncadonk

legally she cant do anything without her delinquent parents permission for about half a year and if she runs away to me thats fine i can take care of her in my apt but then her parents would get me in trouble for something called "aiding to the delinquency of a minor" and its punishable by prison time since its a fellony. Thanks for the help you have shown to be self endulgant bitches and i should not have asked in the first place.

WELL I GUESS YOU FOLLLOW IN HER FATHERS FOOT STEPS...SELF INDULGENT BITCHES???? GET YOURSELF TOGETHER AND STOP DEGRADING WOMEN. THERE ARE WAYS AROUND IT...ALL YOU HAD TO DO WAS ASK--INSTEAD YOU ARE VERY PONIFICATING ON A SUBJECT YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT. LOOK IN THE MIRROR BEFORE CALLING ME A SELF INDULGENT BITCH...AND LEARN TO SPELL.

IF SHE WANTED OUT; THERE ARE SHELTERS WHICH TAKEN IN ABUSED WOMEN TO PROTECT THEM...ALL YOU WILL HAVE IS A CLINGY WOMAN WITH NO SELF ESTEEM...LOOKING AT YOUR LANGUAGE & ATTITUDE FOR A 19 Y/O YOU ARE THE SAME AS HER FATHER....PERHAPS YOU ARE EVEN WORSE. YOU ARE THE ASS, DEAR.

I DO NOT TAKE THAT FROM YOU OR ANY PERSON NOR MAN....IT TOOK A WOMAN TO WALK. DON'T BANTER GARBAGE WITH ONE WHO KNOWS...A WOMAN CAN ONLY BE BEAT AND THROWN OUT WHEN THEY ALLOW THAT BEHAVIOR...YOU ARE 19, HE FATHER IS OLDER AND YOU WILL REFINE YOUR CRUDE SKILLS AS HE HAS.

[constantlylearning]

Now that was SERIOUS.................Not cool to call Ladies that by the way.

[nuttychick]

wow ... koncadonk ... you have the potential makings of woman bashing wimp with that sort of attitude.. . time to grow up young fella your vile attack is very unwelcome in any part of the world