GF doesn't seem interested in giving oral

[piper2007]

Been in a relationship for 5-6mths now and getting on great, really love this girl. However, whilst I am happy to (and enjoy) performing oral on her regularly she has never gone there with me. Sometimes she climaxes before we get to penetration and thats it, I'm left frustrated. I know its only been 5-6mths but it is starting to get to me and worrying me slightly. I am finding it difficult to discuss with her and was wondering if there are any tips/advice as to how I can raise this without offending her ?

[sera300]

Offend her? It should be pretty obvious to her that she left you high & dry. If it's not you need some serious communication about how you enjoy being with her; however, it would be nice if she reciprocate.

[deerockatello]

Just take her to do the movies and do the ol' popcorn bucket cutout trick, I hear that works wonders lol

[sarah_rsl]

I'm someway sympathetic to her not wanting to give oral but refusing to have vaginal sex with you after you've just gone down on her is a bit off.

Is vaginal sex a problem for some reason.

Anyway if she's just being selfish, start using oral sex just as foreplay and stop before she comes. and start to intiiate vaginal sex, if she refuses and wants you to keep giving oral well she's going to have the start the conversation.

A lot of people are actually quite uncomfortable talking about sex to their partner, but at the end of the day you just need to make clear that she's not satisfying you sexually/

[EvilEvilKitten]

TALK to her. That might fix the problem if she has issues she needs to discuss/address.

If that does not work, then after she's had her orgasm and left you high & dry, don't say anything just get up, get dressed, and leave without saying goodbye. Then WAIT for her to call you. When she does, tell her that if she ever does that again, you're leaving. If she protests ask her to consider how would she feel if you got yours and left her high & dry?

FAIR IS FAIR.

[machine_rat]

Perhaps you please her a little too easily, and need to make her work for it.

If not solely for their own pleasure, many girls will go down on their guy to keep them happy and in hopes of having the favor returned. If you back away from pleasuring her every time she wants it, she may begin to try [new] things to entice you.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Rat so instead of him being offended, she gets offended? Gee. That'll help.

She made an error. He has to ask her "Why did you do that?" and they have to get to a solution. Either he asks right then and there or he goes home and cools off before opening the discussion.

But no further association until the issue has been resolved.