12-27-2007, 11:20 PM
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Saying "I Love You"
Here is a little survey for all: When do you decide to inform a new significant other in your life that you love him/her?
Please answer the following: Gender: M F Age: How long have you known this person? How long have you been dating this person? How long did it take to go from being in "like" to being "in love" once you began dating? How long after deciding you are in love did you go before telling him/her? If you are a male, did you make the declaration first? If you are a female, did you wait to tell him after he told you, or did you inform him first? Did you decide before or after your partner, or, did this realization happen at about the same time? How much did s/he know about you before you said "I love you" for the first time? In other words, did you let him/her in on the good as well as the bad things about you, or are you still holding off on the bad or less desirable things about you? How compatible do you think the two of you are? Very much? Pretty much? Not so much? How different are you? What are the major differences? Why do you believe these will not make a difference in how successful your relationship will be? Are you prepared to make this relationship work? Will you be in seven years should the seven year itch strike? Thank you for participating and for your contribution. -doc
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12-27-2007, 11:45 PM
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Please answer the following:
Gender: Male Age: 18 How long have you known this person? 2 years How long have you been dating this person? 10 month How long did it take to go from being in "like" to being "in love" once you began dating? month How long after deciding you are in love did you go before telling him/her? 2 weeks If you are a male, did you make the declaration first? yup...well actually my friend told her...almost ruined my relationship. Did you decide before or after your partner, or, did this realization happen at about the same time? about 2 months before How much did s/he know about you before you said "I love you" for the first time? In other words, did you let him/her in on the good as well as the bad things about you, or are you still holding off on the bad or less desirable things about you? Held off a bit on the bad....but there isnt too much bad... How compatible do you think the two of you are? Very much? Pretty much? Not so much? Extremely compatible...were basically the same brain with different bodies  How different are you? Not very What are the major differences? She has a vagina and very nice breasts...I have a penis and okay pecs. Why do you believe these will not make a difference in how successful your relationship will be? Well...my penis and her vagina get along very well ...just kidding. Our only diffferences is I am a bit less open about emotions....although we are still very good at expressing love for one another.Are you prepared to make this relationship work? Will you be in seven years should the seven year itch strike? We've been making this work for 10 months despite a lot of opposition. (From her families side at least) In seven years I dont plan on being alive...Im going to spontaneously combust lol jk....I believe I will be willing too...
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12-28-2007, 06:18 PM
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Please answer the following:
Gender: M F female Age:18 How long have you known this person? since 6th grade so how many years would that be...7 years... wow.. How long have you been dating this person? 5 out of those 7 How long did it take to go from being in "like" to being "in love" once you began dating? hmmm....not that long...i would say a couple of months How long after deciding you are in love did you go before telling him/her? not that long...a week or so If you are a male, did you make the declaration first? If you are a female, did you wait to tell him after he told you, or did you inform him first? he said it first Did you decide before or after your partner, or, did this realization happen at about the same time? it was about the same time How much did s/he know about you before you said "I love you" for the first time? In other words, did you let him/her in on the good as well as the bad things about you, or are you still holding off on the bad or less desirable things about you? he knew the good the bad and the ugly... How compatible do you think the two of you are? Very much? Pretty much? Not so much? we are incredibly alike How different are you? What are the major differences? Why do you believe these will not make a difference in how successful your relationship will be? not that much, he likes riding mountain bikes, i like riding horses...ect..hmmm...what are our differences...well his family believes that when god blesses you with a child then you take care of tha tchild, be it before marriage or after...i on the other hand dont believe in bringing children into the relationship until after marriage. I dont believe that this will be an issue as we have hashed it over and over. Are you prepared to make this relationship work? Will you be in seven years should the seven year itch strike? yeah... weve been through hell and back... i had several severe illnesses and 2 serious injuries that he nursed me through and i help him with his emotions and his frustrations...we work together on everything that we can, we compromise and yes sometimes we fight but i usually say before i say something i do not wish to say, I am going to go into the kitchen (or someplace else where we can cool off by ourselves) to calm down. You have 5 minutes to be in a bad mood, beyond that we need to discuss it like adults. I believe that we will be fine when it strikes (more threesomes anyone?)
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12-28-2007, 06:28 PM
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Gender:
Male Age: 26 How long have you known this person? 11 months. How long have you been dating this person? 11 months. How long did it take to go from being in "like" to being "in love" once you began dating? I think I realized it about 3 months into the relationship. How long after deciding you are in love did you go before telling him/her? It just hit me one day, I believe I told her the day after. If you are a male, did you make the declaration first? Yes. If you are a female, did you wait to tell him after he told you, or did you inform him first? N/A Did you decide before or after your partner, or, did this realization happen at about the same time? I don't really know if it happened at the same time. When I told her, she told me. How much did s/he know about you before you said "I love you" for the first time? In other words, did you let him/her in on the good as well as the bad things about you, or are you still holding off on the bad or less desirable things about you? I think she knew a great many undesirable things about me by the time I told her. How compatible do you think the two of you are? Very much? Pretty much? Not so much? Very much. How different are you? Not very different, yet we do have differences. What are the major differences? I am 5 years older than she is. She's still in college, while I graduated 4 years ago. I'm a very handy guy, while she only recently found out what an electrical breaker box is for  I am somewhat anti-social, I don't really have any friends, yet I am content. She is somewhat shy, but has many friends, and seems very content.Why do you believe these will not make a difference in how successful your relationship will be? I think that our views of what a healthy sexual/emotional relationship is, are identical. Also our sexual appetites are very similar. I would consider those to be the greatest hurtles that couples face.I think that the differences that we share aren't really that important. Are you prepared to make this relationship work? Will you be in seven years should the seven year itch strike? I think that we are both willing to make it work. To say that we will still be together in 6 years is a jump that I'm not willing to make at this point. But, if we were still together after 7 years, I wouldn't be a bit surprised.
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12-28-2007, 11:00 PM
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M, 24; I have not told anyone I've dated "I love you" because I'm not sure I actually have loved anyone yet. I believe that the phrase is tossed around entirely too casually, and that the person or people who you do love generally don't need to be told that.
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12-28-2007, 11:54 PM
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Very true it does get tossed around...I mean to fall in love after only a month of datin lol.
But you know sometimes its more of a gut feeling...I mean I have only told 1 girl I love you...and it turned out to be entirely right cuz we have been together for a good while.
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12-29-2007, 08:58 AM
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its ok oedi....im in the same boat...
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12-29-2007, 12:31 PM
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I dont know...I mean apparently eating another girl out is a fantasy...but just a fantasy...
I just sorta figure that everything is good since she has actually started wanting to have sex with me, and initiates it (now and again)...and that she wanted to get back together..
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12-29-2007, 08:07 PM
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Gender:
Female Age: 50 almost 51 How long have you known this person? 34 years How long have you been dating this person? 34 years How long did it take to go from being in "like" to being "in love" once you began dating? 18 months How long after deciding you are in love did you go before telling him/her? 12 months If you are a male, did you make the declaration first? If you are a female, did you wait to tell him after he told you, or did you inform him first? After him. Did you decide before or after your partner, or, did this realization happen at about the same time? After him. How much did s/he know about you before you said "I love you" for the first time? In other words, did you let him/her in on the good as well as the bad things about you, or are you still holding off on the bad or less desirable things about you? He knew almost everything - good, bad and indifferent. How compatible do you think the two of you are? Very much? Pretty much? Not so much? Extremely. How different are you? What are the major differences? Why do you believe these will not make a difference in how successful your relationship will be? He's conservative, Republican, Catholic; I'm liberal, Protestant, Democrat - just a few issues, nothing serious! Are you prepared to make this relationship work? Will you be in seven years should the seven year itch strike? Yes.
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