Cant get in

[fried]

Ok, here goes, suppose I might aswell give you some details aswell, Im 28, she is 25, as far as I know neither have any problems, apart form the usual

Ive been going out with her for about 6 weeks now, and we, well she, I decided when we first met, decided that last weekend was the time that we first had sex

All was going well, doing all the right things, the time came, I couldnt get it in, even she tried to guide it in and couldnt, we even tried the next day and it did go in but came out a minute later

Neither of us have had this problem with previous partners, luckily we were able to laugh and talk about it but Im just afraid the laughing will stop

Any help is much appreciated

[Ducy]

Originally Posted by fried

Ive been going out with her for about 6 weeks now, and we, well she, I decided when we first met, decided that last weekend was the time that we first had sex

First off....what?


Okay now that the intro is over...are you small? Because that would be the most obvious reason why...but what do you mean you cant get it in? And what do you mean it just slips out...like she goes up to far when bouncing? or you pull out to much when thrusting? Too much missing detail to actually answer.

[fried]

sorry bout that, read it again and saw how much was missing

Wouldnt consider myself huge but not small
When she was on top, that was when we got it in and she bounced to high

Ive just been talking to her and my positioning was arseways (irish for not the right way) when I was on top

When I say we couldnt get it in, well we couldnt, was just like there was a brick wall in the way

We think it was just 1st night nerves with eachother

[Sweetness12]

any foreplay?

[Ducy]

Sounds to me like she is tensing up. Have her try taking a deep breath, and then spread her legs...wide...lol.

[Brandye]

Try a time or two and if it keeps up, I have some ideas. It is always a bit dicey with a new partner.

[EvilEvilKitten]

*SIGH*

Have her lay down on her back; kneel between her thighs, lubricate both of you well; watch what you're doing; spread her labia; insert two fingers and caress her G-Spot gently; remove hand and slide in the head of your penis and FEEL for her G-Spot with the head; think "up" and caress by moving your hips and flexing your lower back (small movements) while pressing "up".

If she still has her hymen, not unheard of. you will have to press against it until it breaks - don't thrust! Just press.

Try this several times then get back to me here for step two.

[sera300]

Perhaps You & Brandye need to start a post of "basics 101"...."how do I get in the door????"

[EvilEvilKitten]

LOL@sera!
Wish they'd just buy my book Superb Sex. It would be nice to sell something every now and again. Then I wouldn't have to repeat these basic instructions so often. You can download it for $12.50 and that is my picture on the cover.