When do girls want...

[tommy_tucker]

to start a real relationship with kids and all the works? is it on the girl or the age? because i know some girls who are only 22 but thy are married and starting to have kids. but i know that there are some who are at uni still. want kids and everything when i am in my early 20's, is the common with guys my age? i say early 20's because thats when i will be a fully qulified mechanic and be on some good money.

[lustforlove]

It depends souley in the person, their finacial status, where they are in their career, ect.

[Brandye]

The average age for marriage and first child has been creeping up among women. I think it is around 26 right now, but it varies widely among educational and socio-economic level.

[tommy_tucker]

so there would be hope for me yet then? as in there are girls who have started their careers and are looking for the same things as i am?

[bluetide76]

They may be in that frame of mind, but there is still the aspect of meeting people, dating, falling in love, and then thinking of making a future together. You wont just pick up a girl who wants to have kids and settle down right away. It really depends on how the individual girl feels about kids/marriage, as well as the comfort she has in making a life with you. Don't rush it, find the one you want for your life and then everything will work out fine.

[tommy_tucker]

i am working on one thing at the moment, my job. i know it will fall in to place but if feel like alto of girls dont want to get married and have kids any more. i just wanted to see how wother people felt about this

[dancingdoc2]

1. Finish your education
2. Find a good career
3. Bank every bit of money not needed to live and have a bit of fun
4. Save every bit of money that you bank and ear mark it for:
a. house
b. emergency
c. nest egg for your future
5. Do not spend every dollar you make or live paycheck to paycheck!
If you have money in the bank, then women will see you as "bankable".
6. Don't go out and buy a fancy car. If you need one, buy one that is two-five years old and in excellent condition. You'll have a lifetime to acquire "stuff". You can prove this to yourself by driving through most neighborhoods and looking in people's garages, or at garage/yard sales!
7. Learn to cook. You'll save money eating in, and, you'll have "marketable" skills when women begin checking you out.

[EvilEvilKitten]

While it is true that her 20's are the best time physically for her to have children, SHE herself may not be in the "family mode" and you may have to wait a bit.

While you are waiting, inexpensively date as many girls as you can talk into it while also following Doc's advice below. Inviting a girl out for coffee, for example. The idea here is to discover what sort of person you want to marry and how you will recognise her when she comes along.

She will come along. A decent, hard-working, considerate man is someone no decent hard-working woman in her right mind will pass up. And if he can cook - so much the better! Your 'competition' may be 'flashier' so your image should be one of a man with substance to his character.

[tommy_tucker]

thanks for the help. btw i can cook, pretty well i think. with the money im sorted as well. the only thing i have that would drain it would be my car but being a mechanic i know what to do with it and where to get the parts at price.


how do women view men that want kids? is this seen as a bit old fashioned now?

[-wittyphrasehere-]

A lot of women are putting marriage and families until early thirties for their careers.
Go with what bluetide said, but try to have kids by the late thirties as chances of birth defects noticeably increases.