ladies need questoin answered bout kissing

[EvilEvilKitten]

The kind of kiss we want changes.

Erotic = a very light, dry sliding of the lips that make them tingle - promising much - my own personal favorite - tis very sensuous

Passionate = slightly moist pressing of the lips with just enough tongue to make her quiver - best used during foreplay and during intercourse - very acceptable

What is never acceptable is trying to gag her with your tongue, stiff lips, sloppy enough so she needs a napkin or any pressing on the back of her head - no forcing the kiss!

[Ducy]

Wait EEK...Im a bit thrown of by the erotic kiss..you mean like kinda where things will heat up a bit, and youll go in for a kiss, but rather than press lips, they just sorta come close? Like a sorta teasing kinda thing?


And a little tip that I learned when kissing, (and it has actually gotten me a fair amount of compliments)...when your moving in for the kiss,and your lips start to touch, the one thing you should do is.....


Not think about what to do...let it just go with the flow. Because when you think, you think about what will go wrong, when you think about what could go wrong, you fear for the worst, when you fear, you try not to mess up, when you try to not mess up, you get nervous....see where it is going? Dont think, dont plan, dont try, just let it flow.

[EvilEvilKitten]

No, Ducy - you do actually touch her kips - but lightly.

There's also the Eye Kiss - where you gently, with just a hint of moisture, kiss the outer corner of her eye. DEVASTATINGLY EFFECTIVE!

[princessss]

i LOVE corner of the mouth kisses! its soooo teasing! U dnt kiss them fully on the lips its between the cheek and lips... slow and sensual and pull away.. dnt give more... see them tingle! haha x

[Ducy]

Oh....I get it. As long as it is sensual yet light then that sounds great.

I cannot stand those kisses where its it is as if you really never kissed to begin with. i.e. firm lipped and barely touching....Aye yi yi so bothersome. Makes me wonder whats wrong. (considering everytime my first girlfriend had cheated on me she gave me that kind of kiss)

Give me soft lipped, moist, and for at least 3 or 4 seconds and Ill be happy. Makeout with a slight bit of tongue, and my legs turn to jelly...long kiss to the neck and I will do whatever you want

[EvilEvilKitten]

Yes, those too, princess!

[2beloved]

they say if the kiss is bad then the sex is bad well I think that's the opposite because I had one guy was a good kisser and he was boring in bed, and another guy long time ago was a good kisser but he had a short peter so it was boring .

[EvilEvilKitten]

Based upon my *ahem* extensive experience, I have to disagree with you 2beloved. Besides which, any man can become a superb lover with the proper "incentives".

[38866]

The only bad kissers that I've experienced were the guys that completely did their own thing and seemed to disregard how I wanted to be kissed. My basic tips

If you are gentle with everything else that makes up for a lot, gaze in her eyes a little, run your hand through her hair, kiss her neck a little (don't leave drool), hold her hand. You could even stop once or twice just to smile.

Whenever I was kissing a guy for the first couple of times I wanted to know that getting around to something else wasn't the next thing on his mind.

[cyclefreak]

One of the main things I've learned about kissing is that it involves a lot more than just lip contact. How your bodies make contact, and how you use your hands are just as important. A really good kiss means holding the other person close, but with just the right amount of contact. The best way is often to hold her in your arms with one hand in the small of her back. Draw her in close with firm but gentle pressure, but only if she responds positively. If she resists, then don't persist. Women like a man to be assertive, but they don't like to be pressured. And whatever you do, don't go for the big grope! Doing that is the best way to end your session, full stop.

The best kisses are where you manage to establish a kind of dialogue between the two of you, where each person responds to the other.