When To Call It A Day !!!!

[bad_boi_si]

I dont know if this has already been a topic but its something i wanted to know, How do you know when to call it a day? I mean ive been with my GF currently 14months and its been a good time, But recently we both got full time jobs and its seems like we drifting apart more and more each week. All be it i dont wanna say thats it and i dont think she does either, but how am i ment to know when its the right time to say it? I do wanna be with her but i gotta plan a future and if it means she goes to make both lives easier then thats the way i supose its got to be

[Ducy]

Just be honest with her. I mean you want to be with her, so tell her about how you feel, how you think you guys are drifting apart, and how you want to be with her but its hard because you dont want to interfere with each others lives.

If she says she feels the same, then end it, and try to do it mutually. That way no hard feelings for either of you, and it leaves the lines of communication open in case later on you guys feel like getting together again.

[katiebug]

Just curious, but how old are both of you?

What I try to think when I am in any relationship for awhile is where is it going? Where do you want it to go? Are you with her just to have fun and enjoy dating or do you want to spend the rest of your life with this girl? If the answer is just to have fun, and you are no longer having fun, then yes I think it's a good idea to just end it and move on. If you want something more serious, then these are the problems you are always going to have, and you will have to work at it to keep the relationship going. If you think it's not worth the work, then I think you have your answer and you should let her go.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Communication is the key to all relationships.

[machine_rat]

If you're not in a committed relationship, then the day you ask yourself if it's time to call it a day will be the day.

Try to make things work out, but don't force them to work out.

[bad_boi_si]

Its just way complicated. At first when i got with her it was all loved up and that, But since we both left college and got full-time jobs we drifted apart. but then we get closer again its complicated to exlain. But the thing she just says is she doesnt trust me when i talk to my ex even though ive known her since i was 3 and her mum is my mums best mate but she doesnt seem to exept that we are just mates.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Then you have a choice to make: talking with your ex and thus abiding by your gf's wishes, or telling your gf to chill ala "relax, baby, you know I love you." or some such.


MYself, I'd just say goodbye to a bf if he acted like that.

[sera300]

Talk to anyone you wish. If she's that jealous--call it a day--NOW.