saying my good byes

doinmybest · #1 (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 01:43 PM

i just got a job up north and i will be moving 600 miles away. i have said the majority of my goodbyes but i feel that in order to finally make peice with my feeling for her that i still have i need to say good bye to her. is it right of me to do this or not, after all i will be gone for 7 years and i wont be coming home untill then. i still have feelings for her and i know she is still struggeling with feelings for me. i just want to make peice and be able to leave without any regrets. any ideas on how to handle this they would be much appreciated.

sera300 · #2 (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 01:53 PM

Current g/f or ex?

machine_rat · #3 (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 10:57 PM

Yeah, who exactly is HER?

I'm unsure if your debate is just skip town without saying goodbye to her or if you're debating telling you true feelings towards her.

Ducy · #4 (**permalink**) 10-16-2007, 11:01 PM

I think he may just be talking about leaving cuz itll be hard to say goodbyes...Maybe if he comes back we will know.

doinmybest · #5 (**permalink**) 10-20-2007, 10:05 PM

ok its not that i want to tell her my true feelings cause even if i tell her and she would take me back i am still leaving up north. i just dont know if i should say goodbye to her or not. to be honost the cause of her leaving me was cause i always ****ed up. i dont know if by not saying goodbye if that is ****ing up or not. i mean i still have feelings for her but i mean come on i am still so young i know i will find another one out there. i just was wonderingi if i should say goodbye to her or not. i dont want to regret saying goodbye but at the same time i dont want to regret not saying it. i am just confused to be honost with you. all my friends tell me to do it. but all of their girlfriends and sisters tell me not to. i just dont know anymore i think i am just going to leave without saying it. advice would be much appreciated on what is the right thing to do!!!

oedipussy · #6 (**permalink**) 10-21-2007, 01:47 AM

So here's where you get to make a choice - would you rather regret something you did or something you didn't do? Do you choose to take a chance or not? You'll have seven years to think about it afterwards...

sera300 · #7 (**permalink**) 10-21-2007, 05:52 AM

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Originally Posted by oedipussy

So here's where you get to make a choice - would you rather regret something you did or something you didn't do? Do you choose to take a chance or not? You'll have seven years to think about it afterwards...

Write her a letter....spill your guts. You are moving, I assume that cannot be changed. However, if in time you continue to feel for each other she can move you know...either way she will hear you feelings & you will not have the level of regret you have.

oedipussy · #8 (**permalink**) 10-21-2007, 03:52 PM

Was that directed at me or the guy that created this thread?

sera300 · #9 (**permalink**) 10-21-2007, 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by oedipussy

Was that directed at me or the guy that created this thread?

Not directed at you I tagged on yours since you said there are 7 years to think about it. LOL!

machine_rat · #10 (**permalink**) 10-23-2007, 09:21 PM

It's better to regret an action, then all you have to do is wish you hadn't.

I find it much worse to regret a 'what-if?' because forever you are haunted by all the various scenarios that you play out in your head, never knowing which one would have really happened.

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