Is it too soon to move on?

[tommy_tucker]

as in my other posts you may know that ive broken up with my girlfriend, thursday 10th. i lost my virginity to her and she was my first love. now the thing is today i started getting close to this other girl at work and have been texting her this evening. i am over my ex, or at least i think i am as today i had no feeling to wards her, good or bad. so is it too soon to move on or should i got with my head and do it?



btw thank to every oneon here, the advice given here is so good!

[sera300]

Just go out and date...no exclusive relationships.

[tommy_tucker]

Thats what i was thinking but i like this girl and i think she likes me, ive seen all the sighns. i dont think im comfortable with just open relationships because i like to have a girl friend. but i guess when the winds good.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by tommy_tucker

Thats what i was thinking but i like this girl and i think she likes me, ive seen all the sighns. i dont think im comfortable with just open relationships because i like to have a girl friend. but i guess when the winds good.

Just date her slowly, get to know her, and learn what she is about. So, you split with the other, now have an interest w/this one. Get to know her, take her to a movie, nothing wrong. If nothing else you will make a friend...And I am not talking open relationships, I am saying take your time getting to know women! We cautious of getting yourself into a rebound relationship.

[rdan05]

Date her and anyone else you find interesting!

[tommy_tucker]

the rebound girl is what im scared of making her. thanks though

[machine_rat]

She's only going to be the rebound girl if you went after her out of desperation. So long as you weren't doing it out of fear of being alone or as a way to somehow beat your ex to the punch then things should be alright.

[tommy_tucker]

so if i went out with ehr because i really liked her it would be ok for me to do so. i dont mean get in to a long term relationship but date her

[sera300]

Originally Posted by tommy_tucker

so if i went out with ehr because i really liked her it would be ok for me to do so. i dont mean get in to a long term relationship but date her

Yes there is nothing wrong with going out with her just b/c you like her! That's the point. You are not in "mourning" get out and get to know her; see if you still like her when you do get to know her, find out what is she about! If you don't some one else will...

Just date, no commitment required.

[tommy_tucker]

thanks sera this has got to be one of teh good bits of growing up, in the dating game that is.
with my ex we hardly went on dates. the last date i went on with just us was when teh simpsons movie came out in the uk, that was a while a go.