single for life?

[barnley]

do u guys think that its possible to live out your whole life without your relationship? i think thats gonna be me...seriously im hopeless at getting a girlfriend.

[Brandye]

Until that moment when you discover someone with whom you click without even being aware. And there are those of us single for life who have had many friends of various sorts.

[Ducy]

Barnely....i felt exactly how you felt....dont stress though cuz the more you worry the harder it gets.once you stop stressing about dating it all falls into place...i mean i asked about 7 girls out over the last two months of my junior year....they all said no so finally i was like watever i dont care no more....then senior year met a wonderful girl.

[eminatic]

i never had a boyfriend until i was 19

[tommy_tucker]

i had im first girl friend when i was 17. dont worry about it. this morning i was like you, thinking i will be single for ever because i split with my ex theother day. but now i know there is hope out there, and her name is sarah. thing happen when they are ment to. if you think your going to be loanly for your whole life, you wont there are always friends and more importantaly family, they are there weather you like it or not. i dont htink you can be single forever, even if its not sexual every one has some one they can turn to.

[CliMBinG GuY]

barnley, chin up man, i know exactly what youre going through... i have done it many times, but being down and kicking yourself wont help. i am 21 and have never been in a relationship... i have never done anything physically with a girl, hell... i have never really had many friends that were girls... but moping around sure as hell wont attract them to you. so cheer up!

[machine_rat]

It'll all come as a snowball effect. Eventually you'll get that first relationship, then it will come to an end (assuming that you don't marry the first person who was good enough to go out with you). Through that renewed desperation of lonlieness you will find that you have learned a thing or two about the opposite sex.

With the knowledge gained and experience earned, that next girlfriend should be easier to attain. Also those day-to-day interractions with people will further give you the social skills at meeting and finding the right girl.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Not only are you most likely trying too hard as the others have said but you are also most likely targeting the WRONG girls. Take it down a notch, relax, and look at the girls who are more likely to look at you.

Try this exercise: look at each girl and find ONE thing about her that you like.

Later on try to find TWO things about her that you like. Keep increasing the number until you actually run across a girl looking back and finding several things she likes about you. Then go over, tell her your name and ask for hers and then tell her the several things you like about her.