She needs time to herself - the update.

[tommy_tucker]

so i spoke to her this evening and we have split up/ im giving her time. she has said that her head is all messed up and she needs some time to her self, not just for me but friends too. so we are going to have some time apart so she can get back to the old her. once she is ready we will start over again, like from the very start.


im not going to cry but i am heart broken. what can i say i lost my virginity to her and i think she was my first true love. i was more shook up when i broke up with my first girl friend than i am now.

what do you think i should do now??

[FatalExceptionX]

you know tom. not to discourage you. but if you ask me, i dont see the reasoning for anyone to need "time to theirself". she either loved you or she didnt, theres no reason why anyone would want to get away from someone they love. think about it

[Ducy]

especially if she is in florida...I mean you are in texas shes in florida...shes got all her friends around you everything. sounds to me...no offense...but that she probably hooked up or had a fling, and is confused and feels guilty...did it kinda slowly fade, or just full on cut off? if it was like the world just shut off, then it is probably a fling that is screwing around with her head.

[tommy_tucker]

ducy was that for me? because i like in the uk.

[tommy_tucker]

btw i can see why people want time to their selves, i mean i do right now because ive got a lot going on. im starting a new job soon and thats put a lot of pressure on me just to find it.

[Ducy]

Oh man tucker Im sorry...I was reading another post before yours, I thought it was yours....(wasnt paying attention to OP name...but i saw yours) lol sorry man I thought this was an update to your previous thread lol. Sorry

[tommy_tucker]

dw when i read your i knew the topic it should have been im

[EvilEvilKitten]

Move along, move along, nothing to see here!

And that is EXACTLY what you should do!

If she wants you later on, she knows where to find you. But DON'T wait for her. Date as many women simultaneously as you can talk into it! Keep it light and fun. Do not get serious until the woman gets serious and even then give it time - no more infatuations. You're only going to "fall" if she's 100% committed to you. Got it?

[tommy_tucker]

yer. she knows where i am and we are going to stay friends, because at teh end of the day we didnt leave it on a bad note. i will go and date, but i need a bit of time still she was my first true love and i did lose my virginity to her so she will always be some one special to me.