Problem Taking it to the next Step

[Foos]

Hi, I'm not going to pretend that I am an expert at the art of sex, yet I have enough experience to know what I'm doing. That being said, I'm in the middle of a great relationship, with the single most wonderful woman I ever met. While she goes to collage in a different city a few hours away, I don't get the chance to see her much. She was also(until just recently) A virgin. She is the first virgin I have ever had sex with.

The Problem(s) is this, Usually in Bed, I can last anywhere from 7-12 minuets, depending on the situation, mood, etc. But when I'm with her, I'm lucky If I can last a few minuets. And Because I don't use condoms, this is a huge problem. My Girl is being a great sport, and working with me, but it's embarrassing not to be able to please her the way I want to. She gets off quickly, But I would like for it to be better for her. I'm pretty Much willing to do anything to make sex better for her. Any Help would be Hot, I'm open to anything

[dancingdoc2]

Why are you not using condoms and protecting the welfare of #1--you?

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[tommy_tucker]

your not using a condom?? do you want a kid now? but if you want to last longer 'crack on out' before she gets there and you will last longer. or maybe USE A CONDOM!! that will make you last longer too.

[machine_rat]

Aside from the wonders of birth control, condoms also have a sensation lessening effect for you. Heck they make condoms with numbing agents in them so you can last extra long.

Too bad she's in another city, because the other thing that helps is frequency, not having to hold in all that excitement between visits.

[delilahduck]

I'm not going to go on about not using a condom, because you may have not stated that she is on birth control pills.

I am having the same sort of problem with my partner, and I have spoke to him about it, and we are going to take a look at some creams you can get, some have numbing ingrediants, although not sure how that works, and some help prevent premature ejectulation. Perhaps try some of those?

[EvilEvilKitten]

Creams and mess when all you have to do is wear a condom?!!
Give it up! Just wear a condom.

FOCUS upon her and not yourself. Try to give her multiple orgasms using every technique in the book exactly how she likes it. Finding exactly how she likes it should help focus your mind very nicely and help you control yourself longer.

[machine_rat]

There's also the tried and true technique of having your mind off somewhere else.

Thinking about work.
Thinking about baseball stats.
Thinking of lists of chores or tasks to do.
etc.

Just be sure you don't take on a blank stare and lose TOO much focus.