09-20-2007, 08:15 AM
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Move from male to female relationship - Is this "normal"?
I am bi-sexual (I am female for those who don't know), known this for years even though i'm only 18. There are a few select people who know this fact (my parents are not part of that). I have not long got out of an "affair" with a married man, whom was 35 years old. I was deeply in love with this man, and was heartbroken but the decision to end it was a mutual one. Now i don't feel ready to enter a relationship with another male, however feel i could happily enter a relationship with a female and have been vividly fantasizing about this whilst also grieving for my lost "straight" relationship. I was just wondering if this is "normal" and what others can recommend if they have been in a similar situation, it would be of great help.
Thanks, Ocean-x 
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09-20-2007, 08:34 AM
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Keeping the sexuality out of your post; I think what you are feeling is what is called a rebound relationship (does not matter if male/female). You search for an attachment to another as a substitute for what you lost.
Date many, go out have fun, be exclusive with no one, allow yourself time to heal. Date anyone you want male/female.
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09-20-2007, 08:53 AM
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i dont think tha would be abnormal, i am also bi sexual and have a boyfriend i often fantasise about women (not to his knowledge), i dont see him very often so alot of the time it is alot of the time i feel as if i am practicley single and women are normaly the only people i want to be 'with' i'm not sure if that makes any sense or matters at all to you but in some ways it may relate, but dont you think it's odd how the mind works? hmm....
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09-21-2007, 07:04 AM
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Sera is precisely right and the gender of the next lover is immaterial.
I also agree with her advice: date many of either gender and be exclusive with no one! BTW there is little reason to keep your sexuality a secret. You do not have to tell everyone you know, of course. Just MYOB and expect others to mind their's.
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