Party problems - need some advice.

[tommy_tucker]

im not sure if this should go in here but here goes.

last month i had a party at my house. my firends came and so did my girl friends friends. so every one got drunk and my best friend got with my girl friend's best friend, happy day no? well no because he has a girl friend too! my friend wont say anything about it but the girl has and thinks that she can go out with him because hes having troubble with his girl friend.

so what can me and my girl friend do because they are both really good friends of ours.

i said leave it because iut was a drunk think that happened between them. but she thinks other wise

[sera300]

You and your gf need to stay out of it! This is between them, they did what they chose now follows the fallout. Don't pick sides, stay neutral.

[tommy_tucker]

thats what i though but how can i get my gf to see it that way?

[demonbuttercup]

I don't know if you can... but I would stay neutral on your part... so when it does blow up.. you can say... I TOLD YOU SOOO LOL jk
you won't say it.. but you'll be thinking it

[sera300]

You cannot make her see it; however, you can point out it's like taking sides in a divorce--no one wins and it comes back to blow up in your face (the friend). She can be supportive as a friend through listening but forcing any issue will come back to bite her later. They made a choice; they live with the outcomes.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Ah yes! The price of being "exclusive"! Now you know why we tell you NOT to do the "one and only" thing - it just makes life more difficult for everyone.