09-18-2007, 02:08 AM
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Girlfriend broke up with me - need some advice
so my gf broke up with me last week, and I'm having trouble, and am a bit more confuse...
 she was my first gf, and i love her a lot, still do, there's a possiblity that she might get back with me, but i don't know... i've been told to just move on, but it's really hard... makes me want to cry, I feel soo incomplete, but working on making myself better so when she comes back she can see it's a different me, am i fooling myself or what? i don't know i need some advice...
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09-18-2007, 03:24 AM
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you need to get over her! when i broke up with my 1st gf i was so in love with her, it was nearly a joke. what you need to do is have a night to your self to cry and get it all out of your system, delete her number and get rid of everything she gave you. this may sound silly but it will help you to get over her. you need to start dating some one new too. dont be so picy this time as she will be a reboud girl. this may sound harsh for her but aslong as you both have a good time then whats the problem, just dont tell her she is the rebound girl.
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09-18-2007, 05:57 AM
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I agree with Tommy Tucker. I think that it would be in your best interests to move on. You'll find another special girl out there! No, it won't be the same, but no two relationships ever are.
You mentioned that you are "working on making [yourself] better so...she can see it's a different [you]." You should never try to change who you are for someone else. She should like you just the way you are, and if she doesn't, then she isn't worth it. Be yourself, someone will love you for it.
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09-18-2007, 09:02 AM
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> You mentioned that you are "working on making [yourself] better so...she can see it's a different [you]." You should never try to change who you are for someone else. She should like you just the way you are, and if she doesn't, then she isn't worth it. Be yourself, someone will love you for it.
There is a difference between changing yourself in order to be more appealing to someone else--and, changing yourself in order to correct deficiencies in character, behavior, attitudes, etc. that will make you a better person overall, thus making you more appealing to someone else.
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09-18-2007, 09:20 AM
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09-18-2007, 10:29 AM
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yea just be myself, and if she didn't like what's wrong with me, it's not me it's her... maybe it wasn't meant to be then, i don't think I'm ready to go out with any one yet, even for a one night thing, but the company of a women would be nice too
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09-19-2007, 07:55 AM
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It is difficult for both parties so do not think you're alone in this. Everyone has been there too.
You may not be ready to date again and frankly, you shouldn't be all 'exclusive' again while dating. Seeking out the company of women is rather easy - there are lots of women around. So hang out where they hang out. Say hello, exhibit interest, chat a bit here and there with them. Then when you'e ready - take a few out on dates.
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09-19-2007, 01:29 PM
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yea, but do you think it's foolish if i do wait for her to come and say, we have no chance with each other. because she left me kind of hanging and i still want to be with her, but if she tells me that I can move on easlier. beside my friend's are taking to the strip club, that builds up me up faster, for a price though hahaha
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09-19-2007, 02:30 PM
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Go about your life if she is to find her way back then talk to her, until act as if she is not part of your life. Hang out w/friends and meet women. Act single for now...
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09-20-2007, 01:09 AM
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yea i know, i'm taking things day by day, and trying to not think about her, but when i'm at work i'm thinking wayyy too much, nothing else to do that's why, but i know what you mean, I'm hanging with my friend's like normal, trying not to bring down the mood though
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