Need advice on getting over

[doinmybest]

my ex dumped me back in febuary so its been six months since iv seen her or had anything to do with her, ive gone out with several girls, all of them smart ineresting, beautiful, funny, all of them unique in their own way, none of them were anything i liked for the most part. i ran into my ex the other day and i still have ****ing feelings for her and truth be told it sucks cause i still care for her deeply but i dont think well ever get back together because she doesnt trust me because she says i could never open up to her emotionaly. i need to get over her get my life back on track, back to better times. anyone know how i can speed up the healing process???

[ToWild2Tame]

You didn't mention how long you were together. From my experience that can also be a factor into how long it takes to move past it.

I have seen it take anywhere from 3 months to two years, as for speeding up the process, I don't think there is any sure-fire way. Hangout with friends, keep yourself busy and continue seeing other people if you choose. Break-ups are always a tough thing, being through a few myself, that's the best advice I can give you...good luck.

[sera300]

Simple, give yourself time. You never get over it you just move on & love again. Date many women, be exclusive with none, and enjoy the company of them. It can take up to one full year or possibly two until you are emotionally ready again.

[oedipussy]

Want to move on? It's all about your attitude... If you choose to mope and cry over it, then yeah, it's not going to happen. But if you want to make things better for yourself, you have to consciously choose to do so. Have a positive, "can-do" attitude and things will work out well for you. And as mentioned, giving yourself a bit of time plays a part in it as well...

[HardNgood]

you can choose to be bitter or better..up to you