she says were having sex to much?

[sr20det]

me and my girlfriend have been dating for about a year and a half. we broke up for about a month in febuary, before that things were going great sexually. we were having sex about 3-4 times a week. but now that were back together it seems like it has been dwindling down to almost nothing. lately we have been down to about once a week. and last night i asked her to have sex and she said no, we have sex to much, and i said ya about once a week and she pretty much said once a week was to much. i dont know what is wrong with her. does anybody have any ideas? and were going away for a weekend in two weeks and i hope things dont go dry that weekend. and by the way were both 20. thanks in advance.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Excuse me - 20 years old and once a week is too much?!?!?!?!

I'm more than twice her age and if I only got sex once a week I'd be ANGRY!

Sorry, guy, but she's not that into you. Time to look for a new girlfriend with a libido that more closely matches your own.

[cyclefreak]

I'm more than twice her age too, and if got sex as often as once a week I'd be HAPPY!

I agree, though, that's she's not into you. Based on her past sexual performance, I'd say that there's nothing wrong with her libido, but she's giving you signals to say that she's no longer interested in you.

[BTDTWoman]

Cook her dinner, do the dishes, scrub down her entire bathroom, vacuum the floors, make the bed, do her laundry, rub her feet, let her watch what she likes best on TV (and watch it with her), take a bath, brush your teeth, listen to her without interrupting or doing something else at the same time, and see what happens this week.

Fatigue, bad hygiene, and resentment can erode any woman's libido once you are past the honeymoon period.

Don't scoff. This works better than tantric yoni massage.

[andreaxjean]

Yeah, definitely. I agree with EvilEvilKitten. I'm only 18 and I feel deprived if my boyfriend and I don't have sex for 3 days. Though, when I was in a relationship about a year ago, my guy seemed more into me than I was into him. He was always touchy feely towards me and it got annoying. Maybe you should back off and let her come to you. You could always get man sex toys for your own enjoyment for the time being.. =P Then if things don't get any better, just call it off and find someone who likes frequent intimacy.

[DruityLoops]

maybe she just has a low sex drive. and like everyone is saying that stuff like stress and all that attribute to a low sex drive.
i have been with my boyfriend (now fiancee) for over a year now and we have sex about five times a week and thats how i like it

[Ephemera]

I'm going to make an assumption based on your grammar:

Your presentation might not be the best.

Looking over to her, raising your eye brows and saying (in your oh-so-suave voice, of course) "wanna knock boots?" might not be enough anymore. I know, I know, lame, right?

Buy her some chocolates or something. Earn it.

[sera300]

Once a week? Find a partner you are sexually compatible with. This is just an excuse on her behalf. Imagine a few more years, once a year might suit her.

[JuneMoon]

Unless she has a mental health problem, if you guys are serious about your relationship, talk to her but if not, move on.

[Jacoba]

Agreed, problems signals are there she is telegraphing big time.


Find another lover one closer to your style and move on.