08-20-2007, 07:43 AM
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My BF Freaks out about past lovers!!!
Hi
Okay so I've been with guys, probably too many for my age but it only really started like December of last year. I'd just got out of a really intense and controlling relationship and I was only gone 18 so I could go out to the pub and well I had a few ( like 5 ) 1 night stands. Now my new BF can't let it go he says horrible things to me like ' how could I be so dirty' he's paranoid about any guy I talk to and if he knows a guy I've been with it's even worse he's made me cry on a number of occasions. He always says hes sorry and that he'll never do it again but he does. I love him so much but I don't know how much more I can take it's heart breaking. Please any advice. 
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08-20-2007, 08:16 AM
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The past is the past, end of story. You never discuss any of this with future partners. There is nothing you can do to change his insecurity, if he cannot accept it his issue, if he is nasty to you then you need to end the relationship, his behavior is unacceptable.
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08-20-2007, 08:21 AM
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Your past is your past, there is no reason to bring up past lovers or past exploits unless there is some medical reason or psychological reason that affects the present.
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08-20-2007, 09:04 AM
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Many of us have a bit more experience in our pasts than we care to remember. Nothing to be done about that now and it is no one else' business. Too bad you exposed too much but it is his problem and not yours. It is not likely that he will get over this and years from now will be fretting about it. Time to move on; living with jealousy is not pleasant.
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08-20-2007, 12:13 PM
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Your past is your business, and your boyfriend is being a total jerk. You mentioned that you just got out of a bad relationship. It sounds like you're getting into another one. He says nasty things to you, is excessively paranoid, has made you cry, and always says he's sorry, but doesn't change. These are signs of an unhealthy and perhaps abusive relationship. Do yourself a favor and find someone that deserves you and respects you.
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