08-19-2007, 03:52 PM
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2nd base - my girlfriend is really confusing the heck out of me
well my girlfriend and i have been together for about 3 months and its been great . But i feel we're ready for the next step 2nd base . But when we're making out and touch each other she backs away . AND that confuses me
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08-19-2007, 04:13 PM
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Key words you wrote; "I feel we are ready for..." and "she backs away". Apparently she is not ready nor comfortable with the next step.
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08-19-2007, 06:10 PM
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Please read this section in Chapter Three
Boundaries--just what can I get away with- Please scroll down to Chapter Three and then on down to this section. The information should give you insight and a plan for the future.
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08-20-2007, 05:42 AM
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Do NOT think of it as 'what can I get away with' - think of this as 'what does she want'? I suggest letting her take the lead. If nothing happens, you are kind of new in this relationship, try TALKING to her.
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08-20-2007, 08:44 AM
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Point made and taken, EEK. I've changed the Subtitle. Thanks.
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Life without dancing? I don't think so...... The feet may learn the steps; yet only the spirit can dance! Dancing is the fastest way to get a girl alone and into your arms in public. The Tango smolders and burns. It ignites the heart, the soul, and yes, the libido. Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning how to Dance in the Rain! Dance as if nobody is watching.
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08-21-2007, 01:50 AM
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my current gf is my first real serious gf and im her first serious bf so as much as i wanted to just jump in and grab things after a month or two i knew she would let me know it was time when she was ready, if you truely love her then respect her wishes and stay at 1st base, if she truely loves you she will open up to you, BUT you have to show her you respect her, if your arm or hand or w/e ends up next to her boob or pussy just politly move it away, if her bra strap falls down help her pull it up, stuff like that will get you farther then you ever thought
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08-21-2007, 01:56 AM
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Quote:
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08-22-2007, 02:09 AM
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exactly, girls need to know that they're guy will respect them and doesn't want to start doing it right off the bat.
We go through a lot of emotions when we're trying to figure out if we want sex or not. I know it took me about a month to decide that i wanted to loose my virginity to my bf even though i knew i loved him more than anything. Just give her time to think, she oviously isnt ready if she keeps pulling away. but she'll let you know when she is
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