Fulfilling my needs - I'm getting a bit desperate....

[CrazyJenny]

I know I've filled this forum with different whinings and complaints about not being able to see my girlfriend often enough.....

Seriously, it's getting to me, and now that we've had sex my sex drive is increasing and there's very little outlet for that energy. And since I'm used to having her around now, the "lonely factor" is more of an issue than it has been. I've found an apartment close to hers, but it's too expensive for me unless I want to get a second job, so I'm left with the choices of staying where I am and continuing to whine, getting a second job and moving, or moving in with my gf. I like the last option best, but those who have posted to that question on this forum think I should wait. My four needs at this point are, in order of importance:

1. To be with my girlfriend more (alot more)
2. To live closer to my girlfriend (and to my job)
3. To get a better placed to live
4. Sexual contact

Any other solutions?

[oedipussy]

Well, if you truly want to move in with her, and you think you're ready for it, why are you asking us? I don't think it's anyone else's place to decide what you should or shouldn't do. This is somthing that you should be following your heart on. Do what you want to do - you can't be afraid to make mistakes in life. Otherwise you'll just end up regretting all of the chances you never took, and wondering what could've been...

[CaldKel]

How long you been with her?

[CrazyJenny]

Seven weeks.

[sera300]

It sounds as if you are trying to plead the case to the jury! I think you know what you are going to do and what you wish to do. You need to do what makes you comfortable.

Many have said why it's not good; it's an opinion from what we see as objective readers or from what we have learned from relationships over the years. Many have made similar mistakes for similar reasons and are sharing why we do (do not) believe some thing may (may not) be good at this time.

You have to be happy just do not give into a temporary want or need and stifle what you REALLY need.