optimal position question

[iluvsoupy]

I recently started dating a guy who is very passionate, but not very experienced. I am a bigger girl weight wise, but have a lot of practice with positions. This new guy is 6'5" tall and weighs 300+ pounds. He is not well endowed and I was just wondering if anybody out there has ANY ideas as to what position would be best for the 2 of us to try. I am sure we are not the 1st couple who has weight issues who have wanted to have sex. So if anybody out there can give me any suggestions that will help us out PLEASE DO!

[sera300]

Female superior position should work well.

[lovesfool]

doggy
reverse cowgirl

[Brandye]

No way doggy would work with his having all that weight and a little one. Sera is likely correct. When on his back, all that fat will settle back and allow you access. All that weight, for each of you, is messing up more than your sex life.

[lovesfool]

best idea for both of you is to lay of unhealthy food and get a good exercise regime
makes sex so much better.
stanima increase

[NizeGie]

Seems to me ...

If you leave out the exotic ones, and don't get carried away with what are really just variations, there are really only four basic positions: (i) missionary, (ii) doggy, (iii) cowgirl (aka "female superior") and (iv) reverse cowgirl. Try all four, with some variations, and see what works best. Though, given the need for some variety, even if they don't all work as well, you'll probably want to use all four (or, c'mon, at least three) anyway. If one of you was really big and one was tiny, there'd be more of an issue, actually. If I had to guess, I'd figure (i), (iii) and (iv) should all work fine, and (ii) might or might not so great.

Generally, the exotic ones are exotic for a reason, and the reason is going to be more applicable, not less, if you're a tad more cumbersome than average. Which is to say that a standing 69 is probably not worth a try.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Reverse cowgirl is just a variation of female superior so it doesn't count as a new position in and of itself.

For two large persons where the male is not overly endowed male superior is the best with female superior coming in second best.

I strongly encourage both of you to stop eating and start engaging in vigorous sex at EVERY possible opportunity.