how young is too young?

[gutterflower]

i just turned 20 yesterday. you wouldnt think that if you saw me, you'd say i was 14.anyways, i have a confrentation. there is this guy i really like, and he really likes me alot, we want to date, but the probolem is that he is only 15. i relize the kind of risks i would take but i just needed some others advice on it.

[dancingdoc2]

In the words of our governor: "FORGETABOUTIT".

* First of all, a 20 y/o and a minor are a law breaker waiting to happen.
* Second of all, you are way more mature than he is.
* Third of all, in addition to being way more mature, you are also on a different chapter in life, not just a page.
* Fourth of all, while you both are capable of love, your love has a mature quality which he has yet to develop at his stage of development.
* Fifth of all, he is mainly interested in getting his rocks off and will do and say about anything to have this happen as often as possible.
* Sixth of all, in addition to the above, his only loyalty (traditionally) is to himself and whatever current interest crosses his path. You may very likely come up second more often than you wish. It is the nature of the beast at this stage of life.
* Seventh of all, as you continue to mature, your interest in men, life, objectives, goals, and more, will no doubt change sooner than his.
* Eighth of all, you have had a chance to probably be away from parents and maybe live life on your own or where you call more of the shots. Not so him. By the time he is your age, he will want the same thing--to sew his wild oats and do things and go places and to be with friends and on and on while he continues to find himself. If this part of his maturation is sidetracked early, he will retaliate later, I am sure of it.
* Ninth, while your brain is nearly fully developed, you are now more able to see the consequences of your actions, not so him for another six years or so.
* Tenth! Why would you like to date a boy who likely does not have a license to drive or a car of his own?
* Eleventh, does he have a job that will provide him some money to pay for dates and presents and....

[cjb1981]

Thats pedophilia, you'll go to jail, and rightfully so. Too young is whatever is under the age limit wherever you may be.

[oedipussy]

Well there's 11 good reasons not to do it right there...

This is what they call statutory rape. With your age difference, it's a class 2 felony. Unless you're really curious about what prison is like (years and years of it) and don't mind being branded as a sex offender until the day you die, stop this nonsense right now and forget this child even exists. You're old enough to be this kid's babysitter. And yes, he is still a kid. Why are you hanging around people this young anyway? Find someone your own age - you shouldn't be on the same level as a 15 year old. How young you look makes no difference.

[demonbuttercup]

Right.. it would be different is this guy was 17...almost 18.
When I was 22 I was hanging w/ this guy that was 18 but at least he was just out of HS and in the first yr of college LOL.

I mean just think, you'd have to drive everywhere b/c he's not even old enough for a license....and you'd be paying for movies/dinner.... unless he uses his allowance!

But I am sure he'd rather spend that on a new Xbox game then dinner for 2.

[sera300]

There is nothing you both have in common, forget it he is a child, there is a reason the term "jail bait" is used. Follow the advice given...date an adult.

[pozzolane]

Date other people. When he matures and starts entering the same stage in life as you, feel free to make your move if there is still anything between you. But as for now, yes definately forget him.

[lustforlove]

i'm sorry but how can a 15 year old boy even apeal to you? he's hardly a man yet surley you would want somebody who at least has had a taster of what adult life is like. and i mean him hiding in his bedroom masterbating over a magazine is most likley the most mature you'll get from him. what is going on in your head to think that could be ok?

[Newtolove]

not a good idea docs "eleven commandments" just about put it in many more words and the real short answer is NO

[Hungarianmale]

Welll in europe 80 percent of the girls start looosing virginity at the age of 15 !!!!!!!!!