Relationships after separation - need serious help ASAP

[RescueTech]

will get more in detail with some responses. seperated for 11months starting seeing someone and having sex with them within 2 weeks of seperation, at the same time another woman(coworker) found out i was seperated. I started sleeping with her as well( same time as the first was safe with both). I am 31, first girl is 24 and the second is 45. The 24 year old moved in and lived with me for the last 8 months. i dropped the older one when the 24year old moved in. things have gone bad with the younger, too much of a partier, and was leading me down the wrong path. still working with the older woman and want to pursue a serious relationship with her, but she is not acting the way she was last year, what do i do?

[HardNgood]

get some professional counselling about relationships and define yourself before getting others involved.

[sera300]

What do you do? First, stop trying to have such committed relationships w/any women and just have fun until you get your final divorce papers. Then just have fun for the next year or so...no live in's, no serious committed relationships, date lots of women.

About the older lady; talk to her, tell her how you feel & what happened. Explain you would like to get to know her. Additionally, if you work with her keep in mind office or workplace romances are not good.

Moreover, you need to find out why you are so desperately afraid of being alone & what you are running from.

[EvilEvilKitten]

You slighted the 45 year-old and then wonder why she's not as friendly as she once was? DUH! You found out the 24 year old was a partier? DUH! You have not been using the correct head. She was leading you down the wrong path? No cojones then?

Please follow sera's advice. All of this 'smacking people upside the head' is hard on my wrist. Don't make me have to do it again. Sera knows whereof she speaks and gives excellent advice.

[Hubby55]

Once you get to put the dick on the 45 year old. She will cum around...