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Old 07-16-2007, 10:06 PM
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So, tomorrow (well I guess it's today, since it's midnight ) marks the third week of my relationship with my girlfriend. She kissed me today for the second time, and though I was surprised that it was more of a lick than a kiss, I kind of liked it.

So is it okay if I sleep with her. Not naked, and not in a sexual way, just lie next to her? We've done it a couple of times now, and I know I get much better sleep.

As for the sex thing - I'm curious what sex would feel like. I know it would mean that my first time would be with a girl, but I don't mind the thought, although sexual satisfaction isn't really a priority. Right now, I just need the emotional aspect.
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Old 07-16-2007, 10:13 PM
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Congratulations.

Is it OK if you sleep with her? Go for it. It's up to you. You've done it already... what's the problem?
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See I am having the same questions. But I am on my second month. But we are a bit more active. And I do wat to sleep with him sexually also. But I think it would be better if we just slept next to each other first, right?
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Old 07-16-2007, 11:20 PM
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Well, sleeping with someone without actually having sex with them is a nice experience. I suppose you might appreciate it more if you do it before having sex with them, otherwise I don't see how it really matters either way. Basically it comes down to what you feel is right for you.
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Old 07-18-2007, 11:06 AM
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personally it annoys me when people refer to people sleeping together as having sex together because they are two separate things theres nothing wrong with just sleeping with someone theres noting sexual about it it does not necessarily mean having sex why is the attention put so much on the sex as if sleeping in the same bed = having sex, it takes the innocence out of just sleeping together that can be a very nice experience in itself
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Old 07-18-2007, 05:55 PM
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my boyfriend and i were sharing a bed for about seven months before we had sex. i dont think that if u in a bed that u automaticially have to have sex, its a nice way to get to know someones body without any pressure
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Old 07-18-2007, 08:31 PM
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That's good to hear. Although I'm not sure how far I want to go yet, I've slept over at her place now.
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