1st Time for Oral

[Shiroh6]

I posted this in another area, but maybe it should have been here:
Being a male, it has always intrigued me to know how a girl was talked into, pursueded, call it what you want, giving her 1st BJ. Now don't think that I am a prude, because I love getting them, but telling someone, "hey, why don't you suck on this", just doesn't add up. You can ask how I felt the 1st time I went down on a girl, and I can tell you I did it partly because I thought I would "return the favor". I just want to know how the females feel about it. Why they did it, how they did it, etc. Were they "told" how to do it? Step by step? I hope that makes sense. Thanks

[browneyedgirl]

No one ever talked me into or told me to go down on them. If they had, I probably would have thought they were a jerk and not done it. I did it for the first time because I wanted to, because I was curious and it seemed like something that I should do. I do it now because I want to please my boyfriend. We go down on each other frequently, and we each know that the other person really enjoys it. The first times I did it I was just guessing at what to do. Later I did go online and look up how to give a blow job. I found some marginally helpful stuff but most of it was the same as what I was already doing - not THAT much variation of what you can do with your mouth and hands.

If you want a girl to give you a blowjob, tell her that it's something you'd be interested in, but don't pressure her. If she doesn't want to do it, she shouldn't. It won't be fun for her, and it won't be fun for you either. The most you can do is put it out there that you'd like it once you guys start fooling around if she doesn't come to it on her own first.