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Old 07-09-2007, 12:50 AM
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Sex is boring (apparently) and she can't be bothered

well ive been told by my girlfriend that sex is boring and she can't be bothered which is like a stab in the heart, i asked her if it was me and she kept saying "dunno", finally she starts nagging me how she can't feel it when we have sex which is another kick in the balls, i realize there are a lack of nerve endings inside of the vagina and have told her this and have tried to stimulate the clit during sex which is rather hard to do.
lastly she told me she was not attracted to me physically but only for my personality .

lovely eh, all this has bought me pretty low.
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Old 07-09-2007, 04:19 AM
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Get rid and move on!
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Old 07-09-2007, 04:39 AM
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hmm yes ive been thinking about it alot, she just seems to have a problem showing affection. i guess ill have to think about it for a day or 2 , oh yeh, she is 16 im 17 so its nothing to do with libido :s
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> so its nothing to do with libido

You do not know this for sure; however, at 16 it may very well be that she has yet to learn how to masturbate to orgasm. For girls this requires a concerted effort on her part and a determination to learn, unlike for guys in which this activity is pretty much second nature.

As for not being physically attracted to you, this really sounds like a great case for being just friends. Lovers are enveloped in pheromones and are physically and emotionally attracted to one another. Not so here it would seem. As above, my suggestion is to keep her as a friend, perhaps, and move on and find a person who loves you back.
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She is definitely NOT the girl for you!

Now get out there and DATE as many girls as you possibly can! Have fun and get some decent experience so you can spot these girls BEFORE you get involved with them - and avoid them.
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thanks
yeh your right it does sound like we should just be friends. i guess i better talk with her over it all.
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Good idea. It sounds like she's, to put it frankly, being a bitch about it. I say stick to being friends and find a girl that is attracted to you and will let you know if something's wrong.
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