loving 2 people at once?

[lov3less]

Is it possible to fall in love with 2 people at once? Well, lets say you're in a relationship and your partner tells u that they love someone else too. How would u feel?

[lustforlove]

i would be devistated, but then i dont think you can love two people at the same time i think you can really care about one person and love someone else but not love two people

[TheSenseMaker33]

it would hurt a fair bit..but people can fall for more than one person..but you simply have to say I care about you, but you have to make up your mind..

I mean if thats the issue with you.
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[alban lusitanae]

Normally it happens when they complement each other, like one is the perfect inteligent person with the brains to take over the world

and the other is raving sex addicted person which makes your world come true and beyond

My future wife has all so I dont have to bother yay me

I think you just have to observe in detail and try to analyse the situation in a constructive and rational view. But you can't be on this situation forever, though... he has to chose

[TheSenseMaker33]

Originally Posted by alban lusitanae

Normally it happens when they complement each other, like one is the perfect inteligent person with the brains to take over the world

and the other is raving sex addicted person which makes your world come true and beyond

thats true even though it doesn't make it right.
good point though.

Originally Posted by alban lusitanae

My future wife has all so I dont have to bother yay me

good for you definitely good for you..you always know when you find the right person if they .."complete you" as a whole..not a small section.

Originally Posted by alban lusitanae

I think you just have to observe in detail and try to analyse the situation in a constructive and rational view. But you can't be on this situation forever, though... he has to chose

definitely..don't go crazy..but make sure he ends up choosing ..especially because it's not fair to you..OR the other person.
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[Newtolove]

he has to make a choice

[EvilEvilKitten]

It is MORE than merely POSSIBLE.
It is called polyamory.
And it is GREAT!

Now then, who wants to be my husband's lover(s)?
He's a great guy, sires wonderful kids, doesn't have a lot of time but we can work around that.
Any takers? Hmmm?

[Newtolove]

hm i thought with all that responsibility your mutual friends help take off his erm... penis he would have time for some fun with other women as well

(hey only teasing)

[alban lusitanae]

N2L, teasing EEK normally equals being bound upside down and whipped

[Engage!]

I don't think I could ever love two people at once, at least not equally. It's sort of the same reason why I could never do a threesome - I wouldn't want to share or be shared.

Unless you're like E.E.K. and actually like the thought of fooling around, you're gonna have to choose.