The Book "Why Men Love Bitches" - Any opinions?

[Flutter]

Has anyone read the book “Why Men Love Bitches”, if not, you need to. I found out about it after my breakup. And, according to the book, I did everything wrong because I was too nice. If you have read it, please tell me if this is really true for all guys. Because to me is all the book is doing is telling you how to play games, and I am not into that. I would rather be single the rest of my life if the games they describe in this book are necessary to keep a relationship alive. To me, if you have to play these games that the book describes, then you never really get a close relationship formed.

What are your thoughts, especially the guys, because according to this book, every guy the author interviewed for this book agreed.

Just curious!

[HardNgood]

Haven't read the book and I will judge a book by it's cover!...I don't need to be hooked up with a bitch! I don't need that type of training! Games in a relationship?? Pavlovian let's say? Not even close to be being remotely SANE or "normal"...there is NO, I'll do this if you do that ...in a normal relationship...these guys that "dig" that need their BRAINS interpreted by a psychiatrist, because there is something definitely SNAFU'd

[sera300]

ALL I can tell you (have not read the book, nor will I) if women go around acting like a Bitch, they can be really hot & great in the sac, they get kicked to the curb in time. Have not found a man who likes it. However, men do not want a woman who is a doormat or over-accommodating. Don't try to compensate, just be yourself!

[EvilEvilKitten]

1. some men love a challenge
2. some men really do want to be run over by a truck
3. some men are in love with supremely confident women

Just remember - one man's bitch is another man's pussycat.

[littlechicky]

I've actually heard really good things about this book, and plan on reading it. There is also one, "Why men MARRY bitches" that is on my read list too.

[Engage!]

"Bitch" varies by situation. For example, my wife would kick the crap out of any guy who tried to flirt with her. I know she also wouldn't hesitate to berate somebody who said bad things about me. She can also be difficult to deal with in a social situation. Yet, she's never behaved that way toward me.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Just remember - one man's bitch is another man's pussycat.

[Uncle Ben]

Just remember, slightly above average girls think they are God's gift, and feel that they can play games with guy's heads for absolutely no reason except for because they CAN. It's basically the same thing as if all men just started beating the mortal **** out of their women whenever they get an urge... because they can. Except these scars last longer and have a much more profound effect than bruises. Basically, in order to be with a woman that is anywhere near your potential for a mate, you have to play these spineless, cowardly games, or they will move on and find somebody else to screw with. It's really pretty sad to see that women these days want even more power, freedom and reward out of a relationship, but yet want even less responsibility

[TheSenseMaker33]

I know I definitely don't have a bitch ego..but I will say I know a fair few people that do..and one reason is simply cause the guy is flabbergasted that he could end up with a chick that "hot"..

guys deal with **** to have arm candy their friends admire, even if it has nothing to do with a "relationship".
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just my opinion.

[Massdebator]

Although it is true that I like a strong-willed, independent woman, I do NOT like a fiesty, angst-filled, manipulative woman. When I date, I take into consideration the fact that some will play games or be a bit "harsher" than they typically are. If this is the case, I try to talk to them, and express to them that I'm not the type who will take that kind of behavior lying down. If it persists, then I don't stick around very long because I don't need the stress or the anxiety.