I was just wondering.

[Introspect]

What exactly is the best way to go about meeting and introducing yourself to a woman?
Is there a different way to go about it depending on the invironment?
Is there some sort of special 'move' you have to do?
Or some secret?

I ask you, the reader of this post, how you would go about introducing yourself to someone you felt an initial attraction for. Male or female. It's no matter.
Any ideas would be great; and examples, in my opinion, are the best way to learn.

Thanks in advance.

[sera300]

First strike up a neutral conversation about the weather, sports, etc. As you chat, just say "BTW I am (name)" and make a quick compliment to her " you have a nice smile, etc" and return back to the conversation...

[Introspect]

Thank you, Sera300.

[sera300]

You are welcome. Smile and make eye contact w/her while you introduce yourself. Be confident!

[Introspect]

Any sugestions on topics aside from the generic "So, how 'bout that local sports team?"
I'm talking something outragious to start a conversation with.What's the most outrageous/ out of the ordinary conversation topic you've had or heard?

[EvilEvilKitten]

Relax. All you have to do is to make eye contact smile and gently wander over to her, say hello, I'm _. Nice to meet you. (shake her hand) Ask her what she thinks about something in the today's news. Let her do most of the talking but do not sit there completely silent. After about 15 to 20 minutes, ask her for her phone number, write it down, give her a compliment and then leave. (Do not promise to call her.)

[Raidenator]

Confidence confidence confidence! I can't stress that enough. Don't walk up to a woman thinking, "Man I'm gonna get shot down." You have to be cool and act like yourself. It's something that takes some practice, but just learning to talk to strangers is what you need. It doesn't even have to be women, just the ability to talk to anybody is what will win you over. Getting the date is easy after that.

I find that the best way is to have a good joke. Laughter is a definite in with women. Perhaps you could try something like this, "Hi, I'm ----. I had a good pickup line for you, but I forgot what it was." Then just talk to her for a while. Just talk, it doesn't have to be with the intent of getting a date.

[forgotit]

This is coming from a guy who went from shy/single in high school to the complete opposite coming out of college now.

The biggest thing in my opinion, as everyone else says, is confidence. It's easy to say hey, I need to be more confident, but theres a difference between saying and doing. Some things I find help with my confidence are things like good personal hygiene, new shirts, exercise, stuff like that. Most people can look great with some level of attention to these things.

Beyond that, eye contact is a pretty big clue. Mutual eye contact not only can convey basic attraction between the two, it also can convey confidence in itself. Beyond that, theres no real umm, special move?, to do. Be yourself. I find that I can make most people laugh, so I use humor. You don't have to be funny, but everyone has something that makes them interesting, so find what it is and use it.

If you've made it this far and you're still alive and talking to him/her don't forget to pay attention, shes going to notice if you're staring down at her chest instead of listening to her. Field questions that show interest and reciprocate back. The best kind of questions are the ones where she will ask back to you "what do you do, where do you go to school, what kind of underwear do you prefer?". Just make sure you're not standing there thinking about what he/she would look like naked, because you won't keep up with the conversation Anyways I'm starting to ramble on about it, good luck sir/ma'am.

[Introspect]

Gosh. Thanks everyone!
Is there anything else relataed to any of this stuff or a 'fine tuning' to another's advice you would like to add?
Anything at all is appreciated.

You guys/girls rock!