My Girlfriend Likes Girls

[AmISexyYet?]

Just found out that my new girlfriend has never dated a guy before, but has dated several girls and had sex with two. I'm interested in knowing if there is any difference in sensation for women between having sex with a guy and having sex with a girl, or if it's reasonable to compare the two.

[sera300]

Difference in sensation? I believe its an ENTIRELY different experience; it's like comparing apples to walnuts, you cannot compare them.

[Engage!]

Your situation sounds a bit like mine. My gf only dated girls before we got together, and had sex with three or four of them. Yet in the end she's chosen me for a permanent relationship. Don't worry about your girlfriend. The sensations may be different, but if you care about her and respect her, you won't have to fear competition from the female population.

[Brandye]

No, you cannot compare them. Most of us who are bi- separate the two with little comparison. I have lived parts of my life straight and other parts, lesbian. Then recognized that each side has an appeal.

Men tend to focus on the mechanics of sex and I shall answer that first. Women seem to have an innate understanding of one another and intuitively do what is the best at that moment. They pick up on the subtleties of one another's responses to love making. Men can, and a few do, learn much of this skill. Women accept that sometimes the loving is the object rather than an orgasm. Read around and see all the hangups men have on partners orgasms.

On the other hand, our bodies and psyches are programmed by nature to accept a penis and receive a little deposit. We women cannot do that for one another. I guess my ideal would be a male body with a woman's sesitivity to a woman's body and mind.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Brandye and sera there are men out there with just that kind of sensitivity and intuitive understanding. It has to be learnt, of course.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Brandye and sera there are men out there with just that kind of sensitivity and intuitive understanding. It has to be learnt, of course.

If you find him would you send him to my door? Please?

[EvilEvilKitten]

Well, sera, there is one here you might like. He comes with the best of references too! Are you planning on moving to DC anytime soon? The other one is seeking a younger lady to be his primary but she has to be polyamorous.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Well, sera, there is one here you might like. He comes with the best of references too! Are you planning on moving to DC anytime soon? The other one is seeking a younger lady to be his primary bue she has to be polyamorous.

Not planning a move, think he has an interest in moving to NY? LOL! Evil you know me & the polyamorous life, I am too monogamous for my own good!

[Carrina]

I have been in both man and woman relantionships. My husband i found is very senstive to my needs. I got very lucky. My Ex girl wasnt as lucky finding a good man either. The last one left his "little deposit" and left.